Sorry Harper - you are too young to qualify for this YET!
Yesterday's post on dating reminded me that I have had a book give away I've been saving to do and now is the time. As most of you know - I didn't get married until I was 30 and I went to college thinking I would graduate "with a ring by spring". It was a hard time in my life and I know how it feels to want to find the ONE and not know what God's plan is. I know the loneliness you feel and sometimes the hopelessness too. I know how it feels to watch your friends one by one go off like Noah's Ark (two by two). I know how it feels to go to countless wedding showers and buy 200 pieces of China wondering when you will get to pick out your pattern. ha! I know how it feels to wonder if you will always be alone. I know how it feels to go on one HORRIBLE blind date after another. ha! I remember the routine I had of jiggling my keys in my purse and yawning a bunch as he drove me home so he wouldn't try to walk me to the door. ha! ha! OH the stories I could share!
And that's why I pray for you daily.
I have two copies of this book by Candice Watters. I recently gave a book away from her on becoming parents. Unique among books for single Christian women, Candice's story, along with her discussion of biblical principles for marrying well, will encourage never married women, whatever their age and prospects. You can be content with where you are today and still desire marriage in a way that honors God.
And how many of you know about the FIVE long languages. This is such a true concept and I'm telling you - I have seen it in action so much in my marriage. Scott and I have completely different love languages and we try to show love in those ways and it is NOT what each other needs. So we have to work at it. This book is tailored to meet the unique and real desires of single adults. I have one copy of this to give away.
Harper - quit worrying - your daddy and I are planning an ARRANGED marriage for you. Now we just have to decide which cute boy it will be. :-)If you are single and would like one of these books - just leave me a comment and I'll draw on Friday. I'll also be praying over the comments that God would bring each of you a Godly husband soon. I could write a book on singleness myself. I know you feel forgotten and left out - especially at church. You are NOT forgotten here. And you are FOR SURE not forgotten by God. He loves you and has a plan for you.
One last thing - I asked for prayer for this little baby the other day but they have had some major setbacks - please keep them in your prayers.
And a girl I grew up with had a baby yesterday morning, little Holland, and they may be sending her to AR children's hospital today because the baby has excess fluid on her abdomen and they can't figure out why.
Also - how cute is this little girl???? She has a Chiari 1 malformation of the brain. Please be praying for her and her family. http://www.prayingforabbygrace.blogspot.com/
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«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 394 of 394 Newer› Newest»Wow. A giveaway for singles!!! That's amazing. That's so much for the words of encouragement. I feel that we do get forgotten about sometimes. I hope I win. If I don't, I might have to go purchases these. As a almost 31-year-old, I was really encouraged to know that sometimes God does wait until one's in her 30's to bring her together with the one only He knows. Thanks!
Thank you so much for doing this giveaway! I am a somewhat newly single college girl - Two months ago I broke up with the boy who I thought I would marry someday. I am using this new situation of being single as a time to really learn how to trust the Lord. Boy can it be a rollercoaster! One minute I feel so confident in the Lord's plan for my life, the next loneliness is wrenching my heart. Your story is great encouragement to all of us single girls. Thanks again, Kelly! :)
I'm an almost 30 year old gal. .. Turn the big 3-0 in 8 days. . . who has dated two great Christian guys, one of which we really thought we were going to marry, both of whom treated me with total disrespect in the end. . One keeps trying to come back. . .Ultimately, I know God has a man out there for me. . . I just wish he'd come on and show up! :o) LOL But,I know that God's timing is not my own and is perfect! :o) I was the girl who "mothered" 11 Cabbage Patch Kids. . . and would really like a family of my own. I would appreciate prayer for me to meet the guy God wants for my life...
I had no idea that you were 30 before you were married. I would love to win the free copy of the book but think I will be buying it even if I do not win! I know he is out there for me, it is all just on God's timing.
Blessings,
Katie
Kelly:
I have been reading your blog since day one and I absolutely love it! Harper is such a little doll! I am a single, college girl waiting patiently on the man God wants me to be with. My fiance was killed 4 years ago and these 4 years have been the toughest times of my life. My faith in God is stronger now than ever. I just continue to pray daily that God will show his direction in my life and send me a christian man. I would love to have one of the books!
Hi Kelly. I'm 26, single, and related to all those things you mentioned in your post. I would love to win one of the books if I'm drawn. Thanks so much for being so open and honest about everything in your life, and for sharing your faith with reckless abandon. And Harper is seriously one of the cutest babies I've ever seen! Thanks for letting me peek in on your life! :)
Hi Kelly!
Thanks so much for praying for us single girls! Would love to be entered into the giveaway!!
Melissa
Darien, CT
I have read "The Five Love Languages" for singles and loved it, but I'd love to read Candice Watters' book as well!
What a great post Kelly, and thank you for thinking of the single girls! I married a guy that I thought was a Godly man only to find out that he made a mockery out of our vows. He lied, cheated and many more things that are not acceptable. It's so hard to be single again after you have been married, but it's SO MUCH better to be single than to be in a destructive marriage. I have read most of the comments and it's encouraging to hear that I'm not alone. There are other girls that are 30 who are in my same situation. The Five Love Languages book is absolutely a great book! I have highlighted mine and turned several pages. I think it's a must read for married couples or dating couples!
Harper gets cuter everyday! I love her expressions and the headbands!
Thanks so much for doing this! This is really an encouragment to single gals.
I would love to win one of these books! I'm 28, single and living in Vermont where there are very few Christians around. It's a struggle to meet guys to say the least! And SUPER thanks to those who have left encouraging comments before me to us single folk. It's always nice to hear from those who have been where we are. :-)
I WOULD LOVE ONE OF YOUR BOOKS!
I started reading your blog a while back and just love it. I am a single girl, 27, and thought I would be engaged by the time I got through college. Obviously I wasn't and VERY happy with who I am today and how much I have learned about myself. However, I do feel forgotten sometimes because everything seems to be for couples not singles.
I am so glad that I am not the only one out here that feels this way.
Kelly, thanks for the thoughtful post. It brings to mind a lot of things I've been thinking about regarding myself lately (30 and still single) and some of the issues one of my friends who just turned 35 is going through. She is reallly struggling and your post is further affirmation that I need to continue praying for her.
just another single gal saying i would love one of the books...
Hi Kelly. I'm 29 and headed toward 30 and still single. I'm trying to be patient waiting for God to bring the right guy along. Thanks for remembering the "single girls".
Single college girl here! I have had a desire to be a wife and mother since I can remember. To me, it just cant come soon enough.
And so of course this summer, 6 of my good friends are all getting married. go figure.
I don't believe i have ever commented before, but i just love reading your blog. your realness and the trials you share of being a mom, even though you love it, just touches me.
I am a single 24 year old. It seems that all of my friends are currently engaged, or just about there (I am in 3 weddings this summer). I need advice!!
you have an incredibly beautiful heart Kelly. Thank you for praying or us, that means so much. :) It gives me such hope to see your life now and now that the marriage and beautiful baby bit didn't come until the 30s. :) I'm 25 now (soon to be 26) and one of the last in my group of friends who is single. And while I LOVE the freedom (i'm living in GUAM for crying outloud!) sometimes I wonder if I'm missing out. :) I know it will all happen in God's timing. :) Thanks again for your love & prayers!!
Michelle
Okay, so I am throwing my name into the ring...I am 38 and never been married. There are lots of reasons that I have been single....one of them being that God has had to do a work in me...healing me from things of my past and tearing down walls in my life. I always thought that I would be married with a child by the age of 30...at 38, I sometimes wonder if either one will happen. But I know that I serve a God who has a plan for my life....and until He takes the desire away from me for a husband or a child then there is still hope.
I have read the Love Language book--love it and believe that it is very true...gotta keep those love tanks filled.
Anyway, thanks for thinking of us single gals out there...
S.
Just wanted to tell you that your blog is such an inspiration. I love that you take a Christian stand on everything. Just curious what type of church do you go to?
Hi Kelly, thank you so much for the opportunity..both books sound awesome. I am a much older single, never been married Christian woman (closer to 50 than 45). Something you said in the last line is what made me come here...my sweet Grandmother has always told me that she is praying for a Christian man for me. In Aug. she will be 100. Unfortunately (for us)she is very close to meeting her Savior most likely in the next couple of days. Last night as I was praying for her and my family, I remembered that there was no longer anyone that would be praying for a Christian man for me (other than me). So your post spoke to me today! Thank you!
Norah
just leaving a comment :)
i really enjoy your blog. and harper is very cute.
It's like you're in my head and saying my thoughts on your blog!
Oh Kelly,
My daughter is a college senior and her friends, one by one, are sporting engagement rings. She is confident that God has someone special for her, but I know that she sometimes feels discouraged. I think these books are just what she needs during this season of her life. Thanks for the opportunity.
Marianne Tabor
PS Harper is so beautiful, and you are a beautiful Mom. Love your blog!
would love to give this book to my daughter who will be graduating soon from college. thanks for the post.
Hi Kelly...
Wow! There are so many ladies who struggle as I do with being single and waiting for that special person. I am 33 years old and still single. This is a very difficult thing for me as I've watched so many friends get married and begin to have families. I feel so left out and I don't honestly understand why God is allowing this to be the story of my life right now. I feel like it might never happen and that is a real fear....so long story short, I would love to win one of those books!
Thank you for your heart for us single gals! Love ya!
Hey Kelly! I would love to win one of these books! Thanks for doing this for us single girls!
I pray for my youngest daughter of 3 to find the right guy for her. Both her sisters are married and I worry that she will stay with a guy just to have someone, when maybe they aren't "the one". At 22, she has a lot of life ahead of her and I want her to realize that. Maybe we could talk about that arranged marriage thing?
I am so happy for you Kelly that God has blessed you with Harper. She is a beautiful baby and brings so much deserved joy to your life. I love your pictures of her, they brighten the day for all your readers! Thank you!
Kelly,
Sign me up for the drawing! I thought I had read every Christian single girl book. I've NOT read Get Married by Watters! If I don't win, I'll have to buy it.
Thanks for the give-a-way!
Kim
Kelly:
Your heart is so big and kind. Thank you for praying for us "Singles". Even if I don't win I'm getting both of these books. I know God has a plan for me but some days it is sooooo lonely, I try to remember there is some man out there for me, and when the time is right we will find each other.
Thanks again, love seeing Harper change every day. What a miracle :)
Blessings
Nancy
Wow, Kelly! You nailed it! It's so good to know that other people feel these things, too. All my friends are married and many of them with kids now...and I'm only 22. I was engaged. I am actually supposed to be getting married in 2 weeks, but, long story short, I'm not! I'm praising God from saving me from a marriage that wasn't what He wanted for me, but now I sit and wonder what it is I am supposed to do and if I'll ever get to wear the dress I bought? Your prayers are greatly appreciated! God Bless!
Hi Kelly!
I'm on the same page as Kate....I've had 31 birthdays and I'm MORE than ready to find the one. And have children. I want it all :) Thanks for remembering us single ladies!
Dana :)
Almost 25 and still single...it's my turn next. I know he's out there!
This giveaway was made for me! I don't know if I'll be able to wait to until the contest is over to order these for myself! Almost 29 and working on being the woman of God I need to be in order to be the wife to a man of God in the near future.
Best to you.
I would love those books!! Thanks!!
Hey Kelly,
I have loved your blog for over a year now. I'll be 30 in 3 months and would love one of these books! But, I would also love to be included in the prayers, as I am starting to lose faith each passing day. Thanks for sharing your story...I am encouraged :)
stephanie
Thank you so much for not forgetting us. I'm 35 and single, more than ready, losing faith. That optimism and confidence that I had as a young woman is fading fast. It's tough when life unfolds in a way that is so different from how you planned.
Thanks for continuing to pray for us single folks!! I'm still fairly young and attending college, but it does get lonely sometimes waiting for That Special Someone. I would love to have either book and will probably end up buying one anyways.
Take care!
Tellie
Thank you so much for your encouragement. I am still single at age 38. I appreciate that someone who is married will take the time to encourage those of us who are single. It means a lot to me. I have really appreciated reading your blog. Harper is so precious.
Kelly,
I've never commented before but so enjoy reading your blog each day. It's so refreshing to see the genuineness you display and your willing to be open not only about successes but failures as well. I SO appreciate your heart for us single girls and thank you for praying!! I am 24, single, and trying to be faithful in trusting that God has someone for me. The books sound wonderful by the way!
Thanks!
I'm a single mama who has fallen away from the church and Christianity. I've endured the loss of two children (miscarriage and stillbirth at 39 weeks)and have two living children. I have never been married and feel that it's just not 'in the cards' for me and that I'm not worthy enough and must be broken.
Kelly, I read your blog every day and you are the sweetest mama.
I'm not asking for anything other than maybe anyone who reads this would maybe send me some positive and happy vibes.
-Em
I'd love to throw my name in the hat for the book. I'm a bridesmaid in a wedding this weekend. : )
Love the blog and Harper is adorable!
Thank you so much Kelly for posting Abby's prayer blog.
God bless you!
I just have to respond to Em's comment:
you are not broken.. you are not unworthy.. you have a heavenly father who things you are amazing! your worth is more than you can imagine and he has a plan for your life!
you need to get to know him and have a close relationship with him... he loves you dearly!
Kelly,
You are so sweet to think of us single women. I have never been married and will NOT give up hoping that I will find the earthly love of my life someday. I am 45 so I do not see it happening any time soon but hey God has done miracles before! But he does have a sense of humor.
I am very happy in life, with a great career, and am hopefully in the last year of waiting for the adoption of a little girl from China. So life is really good now!
I love reading about your life and seeing sweet Harper. Sharing your life and a word from God is a bright spot in my life every day after work. Thank you!
Harper is precious and I LOVE those bows! I've said my Maggie (adopted daughter) can play football but she will be wearing a hairbow!
Girls, keep God centered in your lives, don't settle to be with someone - you are special and you deserve butterflies in your stomach when you are with someone special! God will provide - whether it is marriage or not.
God Bless!
Hi Kelly,
I have never been to your blog before, but I would very much like to win one of your books. I have Get Married but would love a book to give my best friend, or I would love to have a copy of the Love Languages for singles myself :)
Thanks for letting me post.
Rebecca
I also have a blog here called psalms of a prodical daughter
Thanks again
thanks for such an encouraging post! i definitely worry about that like i know so many others do. i'd love to read those books. :) it's such a hard thing to trust sometimes, and know that God will give us what we're looking for in time. i'm learning that- slowly, but surely. some days are easier than others ;) it's nice to know others feel the same :) love your blog!!
Hi Kelly,
Single recent college grad here. Never had a boyfriend, but continually praying for my future the man God has chosen for me to share it with. I deeply appreciate your prayers!
Dear Kelly,
Thank you so much for your encouragement and for the many others who have posted their words of encouragment. It's wonderful to know that their are people who understand. I love knowing there is a place to come when I feel discoraged and think that I will never see the light at the end of the tunnel. I believe that God has called me to marriage but in spite of my certainty, there is nothing, or nobody in sight. My heart struggles with this everyday. I'm sorry if this sounds depressing!! I trust God that he knows best for me.
Kelly,
Thank you for always remembering us single girls. I am 34 and still single and am beginning to think maybe God just doesn't have marriage in my future at all. That is really hard to deal with. Also I don't even enjoy going to church anymore because I don't know where I fit in. I don't fit in. And the singles classes are full of 23 year olds. Anyway,I would love to win a book! Katherine
P.S. Harper is so precious!
I would love to win 'Get Married'. Please enter my name in the drawing.
Thank you, Elizabeth.
a friend of mine told me to visit your site bc you were giving away some books that really might help me during this time in my life. as i read your post tears filled my eyes! i am 30 and i'm really trying to trust God's sovereign plan for my life and be content in my singleness...lately that has been extremely hard to do though!! thanks so much for sharing your story!!!
I have been praying for little Sara since you mentioned her--I saw the sweet button on your page--is there a way to add that to other blogs so that her prayer request can spread?? I didn't see it on their page :(
I am a 30 year old college student who is struggling to finish my Bachelor's due to bipolar disorder. I finally surrender decided to defer the thought of doing the single professional thing and doing my Master's. I deferred it because i want to be a wife and mother. Even if I don't get the book ,pray for me because I need wisdom and discernment at this special time.
Kelly...Thanks so much for always speaking from the heart...you really hit on something I am struggling with right now which is finding my place in church. One of my greatest desires is to be able to love someone and share life with them. Trusting that God has a bigger plan and knows my desires. Thanks for being so sensitive to the single gal. I am blessed by you. Come to NC and we could totally hang out and go shopping for fun wal-mart dresses!
:)
Hi
I have been reading your blog since Harper was born -- I am a NICU nurse and am always interested in how parents view their experience in the NICU. I am also one of those girls who had a "plan" on when I would be married... and GOD has a different one, which is great. I am with a WONDERFUL guy now and am just waiting... =) Thanks for the great encouragement you provide with your blog, I love reading it. Harper is ADORABLE!!
Jess
me, me, me! put me in the drawing!
I have read your blog since Harper was in the hospital and read it every day, I have never posted a comment before.
I would love to have either of these books. I am in my 50's and been with the same man for 10 years. We are happy but something must be missing for him not to feel ready to go to the next step. I would love one of these books
Kelly,
i would love to enter in this contest!!
I pray and i have complete faith that i will marry my boyfriend of over a year!
Im just patiently waiting ( even though it's hard) for him to ask me.
I hope I win!
and yes precious Harper your are too young!! :)
I am so encouraged that you were not married until you were 30. I am turning 26 on Saturday and am confident that I am where the Lord wants me to be. However, I have seen every single one of my college friends get married and it can be very discouraging! Thank you for your blog and your testimony that is shared daily with so many people!
Oh, look at the # of comments already! Lots of us out there I guess. It is so kind and so thoughtful of you to think of us and empathize! I need all the help I can get so please count me in! Thanks and Hugs, Dale
Sign me up Kelly for the books! Let's get that man to my doorstep!
I, myself, am married, but I am leaving a comment for my single friend Katelyn since she can't log on right now. She's only 23 but she's already worried about being single for the rest of her life. I think either of these books would be wonderful for her! Thanks for offering them.
Sandra T.
Well, Kel...you know my story! :) I so badly would love to get married and have a family of my own, especially since ALL of my friends are married and most of them already have kids! I've never really been bothered by it, but lately...being as though I just turned 28...I'm starting to think about it a lot more.
I pray that God has someone special just for me and will bring him into my life when He sees fit. I truly just pray that it's sooner than later. However, I know it's all in His time and according to His plan!
These books sound amazing! Thank you for your kindness to all of us!
Love you, friend
Hi I would love on of these books and harper is so incredibly cute!!
Kelly, Thank you so much for hosting this giveaway!! Sometimes it's hard to keep the hope that we'll meet our wonderful man. Your words are inspiring. Thank you so much!
It is kind of weird that I would post a comment to this....I married at the ripe old age of 19 haha! But.....yrs have passed and I have a dear, sweet and beautiful friend at church who is single and so ready to meet a Godly husband.
You know I sometimes feel guilty because here I am with the husband and the baby and honestly I thought I was going to be a woman who would chase my career forever--and yet God looked past what I thought I wanted and gave me what I really needed.
I soooo want that for my friend too. I love your blog Kelly!!
I'm sick of being single! ;) Just kidding, I know the time will come!
Hi Kelly,
I've been reading your blog for a few weeks now, and I just had to tell you what an absolutley adorable baby you have. Harper is just so cute! Today my little girl turns 17 - ugh! She is my pride and joy, as I can see Harper is for you. Thank you for sharing your darling girl - oh and your decor, too!
Rhonda
California
hey Kelly! I read your blog often and read the post on being single! I would LOVE one of those books!
Katelyn Sutherland
I'm a college single girl too! Those books look great- and I would love to check them out!! :) Thanks for the encouragement :)
These books look amazing!! I might just have to go pick them both up if I don't win them! I love reading your blog and watching little Miss Harper grow!
Hey Kelly...
I have followed your blog after a friend from church sent me it to pray for Harper! I love the way you just share your thoughts, feelings and heart...and everyday I find encouragement from your blog! God is truly using you to encourage others around you...so thank you!
I am a single woman in my mid 30s who just ended a 1 yr. relationship that seemed like would end with a ring (everyone at church was waiting for it too)...but I ended it as he needs to figure out what he wants...it is hard when these guys are used to being single and they get set in their ways...BUT I am continuing to trust God...and if we are meant to be together...I know that God will open the door...TRUSTING HIM...and His plan...reminded daily that it is not about my plan...which is far from perfect BUT God's plan is perfect...His timing is perfect and God is in control! So I continue to know that God is using me at my job (I am a Pediatric Oncology Nurse and get to love on kids...and remind myself that this is where God has me right now...and these kiddos need to know that they are loved...and that Jesus loves them and so do I!!!....I give lots of hugs/kisses and get lots of hugs from them too...priceless!) Also am reminded that God holds true to His promises and will give us the desires of my heart!
Harper is beautiful...and your story (from what I have read from your blog) is a true reminder that God is FAITHFUL So thankful to have sisters in Christ that we can all walk through this life together...and continue to set my eyes on the things to come that are eternal! So thankful to have a personal relationship with Jesus and know one day we will be in Heaven!
Thanks again for all your encouragement and prayers! Thanks for the book recommendations...I will go to the local Christian Bookstore and get them...enjoy reading at the pool during the summers! Have a great day...and can't wait to see what you all are up to tomorrow!
Is it tacky that I'm leaving my first comment on a giveaway post?
Yeah, I thought so.
I'm actually divorced and am very leary of doing the relationship thing again, but I think learning more about having a successful one is definitely in order...just in case.
I'd love to be proven wrong!
Hi Kelly...I've been reading your blog for awhile but I'm a first time, and single ;), commenter. Just had to finally take the time to tell you how much I love your site and how adorable Harper is. Not that you haven't heard all of this before! Thanks for sharing your life with us!
Thank you for your posts. I found your blog when Harper was in the NICU and am hooked. I will be turning 30 this July and always believed that I would be married and have children. I like you have watched friends get married, have babies and move away. I trust that if the Lord has a plan for me to get married that it will happen...but when is my question? I was apart of a singles ministry at my church for six years and have recently moved out of that and back into school for my MSW. It is rare to meet or read about someone with a heart for single women who remember that they desire for a family and that those special holidays are hard for them. So thank you for your thoughts and prayers for those of us who are single women.
Wowsers - over 275 comments!!
I am 33 and never married...sigh. I know God has a plan for me, but it is soooo hard to wait! At this point I feel all I can do is cling to Him and pray.
I recently wrote a post about an article of Leslie Ludy's that I read. Like you said, Kelly, sometimes church is a hard place to be. I constantly get comments like "Oh, you wouldn't understand you don't have kids" or "I would have invited you but it was all couples" ouch.
Thank you for your encouragement and prayers!!! I hope I get a chance to read the books soon.
I am almost 29 and still totally single so I appreciate someone who understands what other people are going through and your story helps so many people to realize that they shouldn't give up! Thanks so much!!
I'm a single college girl waiting for my Mr. Right. I am in no hurry to get married but of course would love to meet my Mr. Right. Your prayers & encouragement mean so much to all of us Kelly!! =]
hey kelly- I am still single, and its driving me nuts lately. I've been doing a lot of pryaing about it, but reading those books may help!!
Kelly,
I know that I am not the prettiest girl, the best lookng girl, the skinniest girl, or the perfect girls, but I know God has perfect timing for my life and I know that is hard to deal with especially when your in love with your best guy friend and hes dating a girl you really despise. I know I know I know.. Get over him... Harder said then done! I would love to read this book about marriage. Hope Harper is doing well!
Maddison
Kelly,
You always truely touch my heart. Granted I am not single but the compassion you have for those that are and those that are trying is so touching. I love reading your blog because you have so much compassion. My husband and I have been trying to have our first for 20months and reading your blog and story has been such a blessing to me.
Courtney
Hi Kelly,
I have been reading your blog since Harper was born. It my ultimate desire to be in a Christ-centered marriage and stay at home mom. I am 33 and haven't really dated much which isn't necessarily a negative thing, but I am anxious to meet the perfect-for-me man. Thank you for praying!
Shannon
Thanks for always thinking of others. You're so thoughtful and an inspiration. Keep the hope alive! :)
Well, all I know is this single girl thinks you are awesome!
I am so glad I have you, your wisdom, and your darling images of your babe in my life. :-) Love you girl!
I just want to say a big THANK YOU for acknowledging the single girls!! It means alot. I too am single and waiting for "Mr. Right", and it is challenging to spend weekends alone, and no change in sight. Thanks for praying, Kelly!! This means so much to me...By the way, I LOVE your blog!! I read it every day!
Love,
Molly
SINGLE....NOT YET DESPERATE. GRANDADDY WAS A RAZORBACK???
LOVE YOUR BLOG!
Oh...and I love Harper's bow!
Thanks so much for remembering us single gals, Kelly, I really appreciate it!
Wow Kelly, I couldn't have said it better myself. I cannot wait for God to bring me my man some day... hopefully soon! Thanks so much for the post.
Sarah
I would love to win a copy of Candace's book!
God bless,
Lydia
It must be a Baptist college thing! Our motto at HSU was "a ring by spring or your money back." Well, you know that I don't have a ring and I certainly didn't get my money back! Ha! I would love to read the first book. This past weekend, I went on a trip to OK and was by myself for a lot of it. I had to do what I had to do to support the Hogs! :) BUT, it's times like that when the longing for someone to share those times in life with is just almost too much!!! Thanks for the encouragement and the prayers. You, Laurie, and Hillary keep me hopeful!
I am going to have to come see Harper soon, she is just getting too big! :)
Hi Kelly, I have been following your blog for awhile now, keeping up with Harper - who is so very cute! I am entering your give away today for my two sisters. I am a triplet and am the only one of three who is married, my sisters and I just turned 29 and my husband and I just recently celebrated our 9th anniversary. My sisters have been praying for a husband now for awhile, and have been waiting on God to show them the one that HE has made especially for them, but as time marches on their hope dwindles. I know that they would enjoy these books (and if I don't win I'll probably get them for them). : ) Thanks for looking out for all of us and for being encouraging - in all of our different and unique walks of life.
Hi Kelly,
Firstly I really want to say thank you for your blog. It is such a blessing in so many peoples lives! I think I'm a bit younger than some others who have commented, but about two years ago, I had been a Christian for a year and was determined that I would be getting married soon (I was in a church with A LOT of young couples). And I thought I heard God tell me I would marry this man (who I actually hardly knew and I don't think he knew I existed). It's a time I'm quite embarassed by now really. I ended up moving back to my home town but kept up my seeking ways and thought I heard God speak...again. (I don't learn quickly :) ). I ended up getting hurt, he didn't like me like that. After that I gave it all to God. And I felt such a peace. And then a few months later, one of my best friends (who is a man :) ) dropped a bomb. His feelings for me had changed and would I be interested in dating. I accepted and we have been together for 2 months. Who knows what God has planned for us, but I trust His timing and His plans and I'm so looking forward to what's in the future.
I have read Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages Single's Edition before. It's an amazing book, one that has really stuck with me (and on that my boyfriend is reading!).
Thank you for your encouragement for us single girls. It's nice to know that others understand what it's like to have to wait :)
Wow Kelly your blog is such an encouragement! I love reading what you have to say. I would love to win one of your books. Thanks for doing a give away.
Kelly,
Thanks for praying for us single girls. Most of the time I am content with where I am in life, but sometimes it's hard. I'm a teacher, and everyone I work with is married, and in the school I work in, most of the parents are married. I had a kiddo (a kindergartner) ask me who my husband was. When I told her I didn't have one, her response was "did you lose him?" It's a cute story, and makes me laugh, but it's kind of sad too.
HI, Kelly! Love your blog!
I'm married and with two beautiful babies, 18 months apart, and it's so tiring but such a blessing!
However, my sister in law is 32 and single with no "prospects". I hate to think that she will be alone, and I don't want to talk to her about it because I think it just makes her feel worse, as I was 19 when I married her brother, how would I know what she feels like??!
Anyway, if I happen to be the lucky one to win the book, I'll have you send it to her!
Thanks for your blog!
And HARPER IS SUPER CUUUUTTE!! :)
~ALI
Hi Kelly!Thanks so much for doing the giveaway.If I win the book,I am planning on giving it to my very best friend in the world as I am very happily married.My sweet friend loves Jesus more than anything in this world.She is the most beautiful person I know.Both inside and out.She just graduated from nursing school.I am so proud of her!She was supposed to be getting married later this month but things didn't work out.It has been so hard to watch her go through the heartache this has brought to her life in the past year.I know this book would be an encouragment to her.I actually get to spend the day with her tommorrow.I am taking her for lunch and pedicures as my graduaion gift to her.I love your blog.Hoping to meet you one day!Love~Tasha in Indiana
Hi Kelly,
I just turned 27 and am still single. I was not one to dislike my singleness until I began the approach to 27 and realized that 30 is just around the corner and I desperately want a husband and kids. I would love the chance to win either book and even more would covet your prayers for patience to wait on God's timing for God's perfect match for me!
Thanks - blessings to you and your precious family!
-M.
Hey,
my boyfriend and I of two years just recently broke up and so I'm now with the single ladies, and I hate it. I feel like I failed somewhere along the way and I hate that feeling.
I would love to have one of your books!!!
ok, so I am officially ending my phase as a blog stalker. I am not so much interested in the book give away as I am in telling you that I for the first time in nearly 5 years feel like there is hope for me. I was married, divorced a year ago after trying to work things out after being cheated on. I was convinced that my days of being a wife and having a family were over. It is so inspiring to see that you were 30 when you married that man God wanted you to be with. I, for the first day in many years, feel hope again. thank you thank you thank you. days are still hard, but posts like this remind me who is in the drivers seat and how I need to be patient!
xoxo,
jen
I'm 38 and dating a man I love who is not ready for marriage. I want a family but I feel like my time is running out. It's decision time for me and no matter what I choose I feel like I'll lose something. I need God's grace to show me the way.
I am 34, single, and waiting on the Lord for a Godly husband. Thank you so much for caring about us single girls. You will never know how much it means to me and how encouraging it is.
I just bought "Get Married" and it is EXCELLENT!! I would love to win the Love Language book, though!
Thank you for remembering us...and even more for your continued prayers. It means a lot!!
kelly, thank you for continuing to care for all of us single girls. you and your blog are an incredible blessing and encouragement to me.
-kara
Thank you so much and bless you for blessing others. Thank you also for praying for us all. Have spent several years being single by choice and been strengthened to stay pure as a single mom throughout these years after accepting Jesus as my Savior. Now closer to my 40's.
Have felt recently led to date by the Lord and am finding how difficult it is to have faith in matters of the heart for a life partner in this fallen world, in practice, in emotions, not just logic.... when it feels like I'm stronger in my faith walk with all other areas in my life. I have faith God knows the desires of my heart but it is not easy, especially when you don't want to get used to kissing many frogs to get to the Prince. I believe God can teach us what we need to learn in relationships and trust with the same guy instead of a series of guys.
To date or not to date... that is the question for me right now.... so I'm just resigning back to praying about it. Thank you again and bless you for your ministry!
I don't think it will ever happen for me. I'm already 30 and pretty much set on never being married. It seems like us girls waste our life away looking for "the one". sigh!
If I don't win the book, I'm going to buy it! I'm 24 and always wanted to get married by the time I was 23 and that didn't happen. I'm praying God brings my man along soon...I'm ready to fulfill the command of "go forth and multiple"!
Hey Kelly--
I'm so glad you're doing this! I am very hopeful and prayerful about my future mate, but I know that God's timing is perfect...the book seems very interesting...I hope I win!!! AND...today's picture of Harper s precious!
I'm a big fan of Candice Water's articles on Boundless, but haven't bought any of her books yet. I would love to have this one! I'm 27 and single. It's a long, occasionally hard wait, but I know God has a plan. :) Thanks, Kelly!
Kelly,
I just want to thank you for your heart for us single women. I am 28 and am waiting for my husband still. I have the HARDEST time even meeting Godly single guys- especially at church- I feel like the oldest single at my church!
I've struggled with guilt over how I've felt when my friends get engaged, married, or prgenant. I want to be happy, but something creeps up in me that leaves me feeling like I've been left out and wondering if it'll ever be my turn. (I've also struggled with guilt over even having those thoughts.)
I have a few women in my life that were married later in life, but even though I don't even know you, I feel like you're more encouraging than these women even are! You are a blessing Kelly!
Thank you for praying for us- you will never know what a blessing you are to the single women and moms in waiting that you so diligentky pray for! God bless you, sweet woman.
Oh, and if by chance you ever have the chance to come to Minnesota- SO post it on your blog- I'd love to take you out for lunch and meet your little miracle!
Kelly,
Thank you for praying for everyone like you do. I have only been reading your blog a few months and it's entertaining, comforting, informative, and encouraging...like Wal-Mart! One stop shopping! Ha!
awesome, kelly! still single, living in EGYPT, creeping dangerously close to 30, and not a man in sight. God sure loves to test our faith, doesn't He?! Jer. 32:27
Kelly, First I want to say HI! My mom turned me on to your blog because my first daughter Grace was born this year on Jan. 10th and I guess her and Harper are like 6 days apart or something like that? I will be 30 in Aug as well. I love seeing what Harper is doing and knowing that Grace is following right along with her, (well except for the teeth!). I have a best girl friend Christian who had the same thoughts as well. I remember in high school her telling me married and kids by 19, or something to that effect. I was her first good friend to get married and move away and her best friend just got married and is joining the peace corp and moving away shortly. I know she desperatley wants to be a wife and mother and I often wonder whats holding her back from finding the right man. I appreciate the give away and if you don't choose me for one the books then at least I have heard about them and can suggest them to her to buy because she is a big reader. Oh and I love your accent by the way! So no I don't think your laugh is annoying!
Hi There! I am a 36 year old Single Mother (never married). I have gone to more showers, weddings, partys, etc - than i can even count! Have you seen the movie 27 dresses? I am almost that bad! I have been a Maid of Honor or Bridesmaid about 12 times.
I know that God has a plan for my life! I am not impatient - just get lonely sometimes! Thank goodness I have a wonderful 14 year old son!!!
Anyway - I would love to be included in the drawing!
Single in Settle here....thank you for your words of encouragement. The books sound like some great summer reading material! I love reading your blog, and can't get enough of cute Harper :)
Kelly,
You and your family have touched so many lives...THANK YOU!!
Kelly, PLEASE sign me up! I would love to be included in the drawing. I have been single for a while and my heart is heavy sometimes wondering where in the world the guy I dream of may be. Or if he even exists. This has been something that I have been praying about for the past year... that I would live for today and know that my life won't start just because I get married! I'm young and free and blessed so much at this stage of my life. I'm beginning to learn that and believe it, but sometimes I have set backs. These look like excellent books that are very relevant to myself and many other girls. Thanks so much for sharing your journey with us! It's so good to hear from a lady that I look up to that she once had the same worries I do! It's reassuring to know I'm not alone. (Keep us updated on the arranged marriage. Harper is so cute, she's have people lined up at the doors. We can help you vote on the most eligible bachelor, ha ha!)
I am 31 and waiting for what I'm believing God has for me. You're so thoughtful and sensitive to those of us who are single. Your testimony is a reminder of God's faithfulness. Thank you for your prayers. You definitely spread the love the of Jesus!!!
I love reading about Harper! She is such a cutie!!
Kelly,
You already know my story :) I would love to have the book! Thank you so much for being an encouragement and remembering us "forgotten" girls.
Thank you Kelly for praying for all us single girls! I think that some of us are single simply so that we can help minister to others someday that also wait (patiently at times, impatiently at others) for the man that God intends for us. I am 29 and 30 is coming way too fast. I know that I would love to be married and have a family, but I've learned that God knows best. I can't say how much comfort and love I feel by reading about the many other girls like myself. It is hard not to harden to the hurts I've experienced and to not close off to possibilities in the future. I am encouraged and inspired to know that I am not alone! Thanks again!
Hey Kelly, I love your blog. Harper Brown is by far the cutest little princess! I am a 20 year old student who has recently had my heart broken! :( My boyfriend and I of three years decided to go our separate ways this past February and it has been much harder than i expected. I am so thankful for women like you who can relate and understand the pain us single women feel. I would love to be included in the giveaway and thank you in advance for your well needed prayers!
Sincerely, Ainsley
I bought "Get Married" right after it came out, and it's by far the best book on the subject that I've ever read! I absolutely loved her transparency and honesty. I haven't read the other book, but I've heard that it's great as well.
Thanks for your encouragement and prayers, Kelly!
As a 36-year-old, never-been-married, it sometimes feels like I am the last non-married person in this small Mississippi town. I belong to a very small church and am the only one with no spouse (or ex-spouse) and no children in our entire Sunday School class. Some Sundays its so hard to sit through class without crying. This year, we changed to a new SS periodical, which is targeted toward parents. These folks love me and mean no real harm, but there are times I just want to run away screaming because I don't have (and may never have) a husband and children. All that to say, I think I would really like to read that book. God Bless you, Scott and Harper! Elsisi
I would love either of these books, but the love languages book especially interests me in this transitional period in my life. I love seeing photos of baby Harper!
Kelly, you're so sweet to have such a heart for us single girls. Thanks for the encouragement!
I am single and trying to patient but it's getting hard.
April 28th I finished my last treatment for Ovarian cancer so I have come to realize how short life really is. I have been blessed with a great family but I feel like there is something missing. Someone to share my life with and hopefully eventually raise a child or two with. I know God will lead him to me...
eventually:)
Your blog is awesome, and so are you and your beautiful family!
Hi Kelly!
I'm a single girl, 27 years old, haha, so maybe I'm not a girl! I'm a little different than the rest of the other gals, because I have a 2 year old daughter. When I got pregnant I knew that having my precious baby was the only choice there was. But her father isn't a very good man and he's not Christian, so I knew in my heart it wouldn't be in her best interest. Well actually, we were going to get married, right up until after I had my little girl. When she was born I felt this all consuming love and I knew that it would only hurt her if we got married. I thought it would just be compounding my mistakes and I couldn't do that to her.
Of course my family wasn't thrilled, us being "upstanding" members in our conservative Baptist church. It's been a really hard journey, especially when trying to ask forgiveness for the sin but being ever so thankful for the consequence. And it's not like I can hide my sin and pretend I'm the perfect girl everyone thought I was. I wanted more than anything to get married and have kids, in that order. Everyone wanted me to terminate my pregnancy, but I couldn't and wouldn't. My parents were SO angry with me, but I fought for my daughter, even though I knew it meant I wasn't going to have the life I'd imagined. (I was in my 2nd yr of law school at the time)
I love my daughter more than anything in this earthly world, and I want so badly to give her a good Godly father, someone who can be the spiritual leader of our home. But to so many Christian guys, I'm damaged goods and I feel like maybe I've already missed "my one," like that's my punishment.
This is just something I struggle with on a daily basis, that's why I've written a novel! Thanks for doing this giveaway!
Kelly-
I can't get over your kindness. I am a single 24 year old gal that usually doesn't have much trouble with the single thing. BUT, lately the enemy has been invading my thought life with lies and the fear of never being married has rooted itself deep.
As those lies have presented themselves, I have begun taking every thought captive to the Lord...asking Him to replace the lies of the enemy with the Truths of His Word.
My names is on your list for girls praying for a husband...and I can't tell you how much comfort I get knowing that YOU...someone that doesn't even know me...is praying for MY life.
Thank you thank you thank you. I would love to win the giveaway, but I already feel like I've won because of your prayers.
Blessings and Prayers!
Thanks so much for offering these books! Both look great! Please include me :)
I LOVE the love languages books. I wrote about it once on my blog, although more in relation to my family life than marriage because, well, I'm not married ;)
I've never heard of the other one and would love to check it out!
Thanks so much for holding this giveaway!!
If you draw this comment, I would LOVE for the book to be sent to my single (and swanky!) friend, Bex.
http://www.tbdorbust.blogspot.com
She is an incredible woman of God that is waiting to be introduced to her soul mate. She's in the "waiting room" as she calls it -- and serving God faithfullly there.
She is truly a gem. I heart this girl!
Blessings,
Kristen
I am a single, never married almost 36 year old who thought that I would be married and have all my children by now. While I was engaged in college, I understand now that wasn't God's man for me and I'm thankful He saw fit to show me that in time.
Having a hysterectomy as a (being brutally honest) 27-year old virgin was a very hard thing. Later, though, I came to believe that my ability to have my own children was an "Isaac" that the Lord was asking me to lay on the altar. I did and He has blessed me even in the midst of dealing with such a surgery. I still have a dream of adopting (provided the Lord brings a husband)—and her name will be Hannah Hope. Hannah because I will have waited SO LONG for her, and Hope because she gives me a reason to hope.
I have tried eHarmony, but had some bad experiences and just don't have a peace about doing it again, not at least right now. I also have Fibromyalgia, and my energy levels do not allow for me to do much of anything socially. So even if I DID have guys that asked me out (I don’t), it would be hard because I just don’t have the energy to go out. I pretty much work and then go to church on Sunday mornings. I had to give up singing in the church choir because I don’t have the energy to go to the mid-week practices. I have seen some friendships fade because I’m not able to get together with them and hang out. I’m not trying to feel sorry for myself (though I do honestly struggle with that sometimes), I’m just trying to paint a picture of my life.
I don’t know if I have the “gift of singleness” or not. In some ways I am content being by myself, as the Lord has blessed me with wonderful friends and family. Yet, my heart still longs for companionship and someone to love me, and my arms continue to ache for a baby of my own. The older I get (especially when it gets this close to my birthday, about a month away), the more I wonder if the Lord has decided it’s in my best interest to be single forever. I know that if that’s what He wants, He will provide strength and contentment to enjoy that. Yet a long part of me doesn’t WANT to have the gift of singleness and still holds on to the dream of being married and having a family.
I’m sure there are many more deserving/needing people out there to receive the books, I just felt compelled to share my story with you. I want you to know HOW VERY MUCH I appreciate how you remember us single gals on your blog. I can’t tell you how refreshing it is. I continue to read your blog because I am encouraged and just love baby girls and Harper’s pictures bring me such delight.
I will certainly be looking into those books, one way or the other! Thanks for the ideas!
Many blessings on you and your sweet family and thanks again for providing encouragement and joy! :)
Kelly,
I just wanted to say that you are such an inspiration to all of the single woment out there are patiently waiting for all the God has in store for them! I am one of those girls that thinks I am destined to be alone forever. But I just keep trying to tell myself that God has a reason for everything! Thanks so much for your uplifting words! The books look like an uplifting read!
Wow, you just described what my 25 year old sister is going through. I will be buying her that book if I don't win it!
You said exactly what my heart has been crying out for a long time now...especially because the guy I dated (and I thought I was going to marry) is now getting married to someone else. It is even more difficult when I look around and see no potential for marriage. This has been a true season of trusting God in His timing and perfect plan. Thank you so much for your prayers!!
Kelly, I am 34 (35 in 20days) and have been dating a man for 12 years, no ring. We are currently in counsuling at my church (which he does not attend) to see if we are going to be married. I struggle to find my direction in this phase of my life as I want a family adn also have PCOS so I know that will be another stugle as well. I thank you for your posts form single women especially the ones around Mother's Day. I keep your family in my prayers nad check it daily. Hugs to Harper!
I so enjoy your blog. I am 43, single & so know the lonliness. I raised 2 boys on my own. They always came before men. Now one is married & serving our country in Iraq - tough one on a Mom. The other off to school. I so want to meet someone - just don't know if to late. I wouldn't change the life the boys & I had as they were the most important but wish I had someone. Daughter in law told my son she would have me married when he returned from his tour of duty - yikes. Thanks for thinking of us single gals. Even though you are at a different spot in life you inspire me. Bless your family!!
I'm all set in the dating dept, (getting married in Oct) but I'd like to win the book for my sister, Joy. She's so depressed all the time that she'll never find the one, and that noone will ever love her. Breaks my heart, she's only 24! But I think she would greatly benefit from this book. Fingers crossed and hands clasped! :)
Thank you for this post. I didn't realize you were 30 when you married. Glad to know that!! I'm almost 29 and in a transition period in my life. Lots of changes. I kind of feel like I'm in a snow globe that just got shaken up. Waiting and watching to see where all the pieces settle. It's exciting but incredibly tough at the same time. Sounds like these are two books that I really must read.
Thank you Kelly for all you do.
I just want to say thank you so much for thinking of us single girls out there...and you may not remember me but you sent me a very encouraging email a couple months ago. I really appreciate your heart and your caring for us - strangers you don't even know! Your blog is a true blessing and reading it brings me joy every time.
I am a divorced Mom of 3 girls. Dating is VERY hard...finding a Godly man to date is even HARDER!
I will continue to patiently wait!
Please count me in, girl!!!!! :)
Hi Kelly! I'm leaving a comment, not because I'm single (I am a married mother of two small children), but because my sister-in-law is. She could definitely use the encouragement of either of the two books you're giving away. :)
Thanks for your encouragement and prayers for us single gals! :)
I am one of those singles. :) 23 and never seriously dated before. I am content most of the time, and I am in no real hurry. Although sometimes I do not feel as content as other times. I have heard so much about the Love Languages book, but have never read it. Both books sound great!
I so appreciate your prayers. I am a single college girl, not so much looking forward to the 5 weddings I will be attedning this summer --with no date.
I know God has a plan but I really appreciate you taking notice of us girls that are still waiting and praying for our "happily ever after"
Thanks so much for the encouragement, nice words, and cute pictures you provide us with daily.
-Shannon
I am most definitely a single girl and would love either of these books. Thank you for writing about this. :)
Thanks for your encouragement for single women, Kelly!
I am 32 and buying my 6th bridesmaid gown this summer ;-)
God continues to teach me of His faithfulness, provision, and love as I constantly must surrender my desires for marriage to Him... I know He has a plan!
I look forward to reading your blog every morning. Thanks for remembering us single girls. 36 and single, please enter me into the drawing.
I read your blog often, I have been reading since before Harper was born. I am in college and right now I am looking for the married life, but it seems like often other things get in the way and its put on the backside.
I'd love to read the books, I may have to go and pick them up myself.
Thanks for sharing Harper with us, she is truly an inspiration and just adorable at that!
I was thinking about this the other day. Late May would have been my parent's 47th wedding anniversary. My dad passed away in Feb. of 2007. I know that when God does bring the right man into my life that it will be a marriage ordained by Him and that it will ultimately be death that parts us. Until then, I am trying my best to be the woman that God has created me to be and listen to His words as He is my all.
I. can. not. wait. to. have. children. though!!!!! I'll be 27 in October, and thankfully I have a nephew and friends with babies that help satisfy the cuddly urges I get. LOL!
Thanks for your blog! A big "Howdy!" from Houston!
I look forward to reading your blog every morning. Thanks for remembering us single girls. 36 and single, please enter me into the drawing.
Rebecca
I guess I am a little different. I went through college and even the first few years after that listening to my friends complain because they weren't married or dating anyone. My attitude has always been not to stress over it because if and when it is meant to happen is out of my hands. God has a plan for me and if it is to be single than so be it and if not to be single that is cool too. I turned 31 in December and have to admit I am tired of getting the oh poor you looks because I am still single because being single is not the end of the world. At least when there is a mess in the house I know who made it and only have myself to blame. :)
Kelly--We have been friends since we were Tri Chi's together all the way back in 1994! And your friendship has meant a lot to me over the years. And now that I am almost 35, dateless, and still very single you would think I would be in the depths of despair and crying all the time. But there is something about being in your 30's and being single. I don't think I have ever been more confident in who I am in the Lord. And how He has created me for a purpose and that I am beautifully and wonderfully made inside and out. And all of this by The Creator of the universe!! So for those that are struggling with being single...I just remember that I am blessed and I live a VERY full and wonderful life. I am not perfect and still have my negative moments. Its not easy but then I think everyone has struggles at whatever stage of life they are in. I have a copy of the Love Languages for Singles. It's a great book and I would recommend it. It is good because it helps you relate to family and friends. And isn't that what we are here for and our ultimate purpose...to show love (God's Love) to others.
Being single and nbk all through highschool, I entered college as a young and innocent girl. That changed and a year and a half of making poor decisions and releasing some inner pain through terrible means, I finally came to grip with some things that I needed to face head on in my life.
As of now, I have completely 180'd my life around and I am totally relying on God as my rock and salvation. Its a hard time in your life when you know you want to be a godly wife and mother, but you still have a long way to go.
Right now, I am embracing my singleness and trying to learn everything that God wants for me, as well as how he has forgiven me for my past crappy decisions and how he wants to mold me into a beautiful godly woman. I am learning to be content where God has me and any sort of helpful book on biblical marriage or love would be a great resource to me.
I love your blog, its so colorful and welcoming, as well as insightful, I will definitely be back again!
Thanks=)
I am 28 and still waiting to be the man that God has chosen for me. It is very discouraging at times. Right now I am watching my younger sister plan her wedding for the fall. I would love to read the book that you have posted about.
Hi Kelly--I just want to say how much I enjoy reading your blog. Though we've never met, I can just imagine how you would say what you're writing (does that make sense?).
Anyhow, I'm almost 27 (on Sat.!) and have always been single. Never even dated. It never bothered me until the last few years as I see on Facebook all my old friends married w/children. I go through periods of contentment and discontentment. I know God's in control and I have 2 single aunts who both have full lives so I have great examples. But..it's still hard. My biggest issue is..where does one meet guys? I work with all women, only 1 single guy my age at church, and the community groups I'm involved with seem devoid of men my age too! Thanks for this great giveaway and sorry so long.
Karen
Hi Kelly,
I just happened to stumble across your blog today, and the timing could not have been more perfect. The words you spoke on singleness reinforced so much that God has been impressing on my heart lately.
My two little sisters are getting married this year. I am 25 and they are 20 and 22. I used to be so discouraged that I have not yet found my future husband and that all my friends and my two younger sisters had. Actually, to be honest, discouraged is putting it lightly. I used to be obsessed with finding him. I would base every decision that I made and every step in life that I took based on if I thought it would lead me closer to finding him. I would manipulate all aspects of my life to try and make things work out with certain people, when clearly it was not in God's will.
But, by the grace of God, everything changed a few weeks ago when I went to Haiti as part of a medical and dental missions team. I knew the trip would change my life, but I had no idea it would change my heart as much as it did. Now everything that seemed to matter so much before doesn't seem to be all that important anymore. I feel so called to live this life that God's given me sold out to Him in missions that now it's consuming my heart all the time. Through Haiti and its people, my Savior has captured my heart once again. Finally He is where He is supposed to be. Now finding my future husband isn't as high on my priority list as living each and every day sold out in service to my Heavenly Prince.
I know one day I will meet him...I'm confident of it in my heart. But until then, I'm learning day by day to be content. I'm definitely going to have to check out those books that you mentioned. I wish I could sit down and talk with you about your journey through singleness because I know I could learn so much through your wisdom. But your blog is definitely going to be the second best option!
In Him,
Stacie
Hi Kelly,
I just found your blog today thru "Women Praying Boldly". I am a 32yr old single christian girl who deeply desires to be married like yesterday! I've been praying for and working towards marriage for about 7years now and I'm still waiting, some days patiently, somedays not so patiently.
Thank you so much for your prayers for those of us who are still waiting...
AH! Totally need this right now! Everyone is getting engaged or married right now. So many candlelgihts. I've come to the realization I won't have my own candlelight but I would love to find someone who loves me as much as i love him. I've been struggling with appreciating myself lately. I could use some encouragement! I can't wait to share your last 2 posts with others. THank you so very much!!!! PS new follower because of your dating advice :)
What an encouragement you are! Thank you so much! If I don't win, I'll definitely be adding to my library!
Kelly,
I would love either book. I am a 38 year old never married. I am also a single mother to a lovely 15 year old daughter, who could benefit from these as well. I know God has promised me a spouse, but the waiting gets painful. In the mean time, some of my friends and I are starting a singles group at our church. Our heart is to be about serving the community instead of waiting to be served. I have found contentment and peace where I am, however I would love to equip others to find that same contentment. I love your blog.
Thank you so much for keeping single women in your prayers. I too feel just as you did. It's so difficult feeling unwanted by the church you've attended your entire life, but I'm unsure what to do about it. Even when it comes to volunteering, the other women do not treat us singles very kindly.
I want so desperately to share my life with a godly man, and it is at times so difficult to have hope and to hold on to God's promises. I've struggled with depression the past couple of years, too, which doesn't help much. This Saturday, I'm going to my cousin's (who is the same age as me) bridal shower, and I know it is going to be an emotional struggle to get through it.
It just feels like no one wants to accept that singleness can be painful and that others only ever want to rebuke singles for "whining" about being single. And so, as I mentioned before, I am ever so grateful that you have true compassion for those that are hurting no matter what their marital status is at this point in their life. Thank you, and may God truly bless you and watch over you in all that you do!
Kelly!
Love reading your blog...i long to be married one day! and would love to win one of the books!
Briana
Kelly, thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I am in my 40's, never married, not currently dating anyone. It is such a struggle sometimes to remain faithful. It seems that my prayers go unanswered, or even unheard. I know this is not the case, but the dark days do bring silly thoughts. Anyway, I so enjoy your blog and am grateful to be included on your waiting for God's blessings list. You are a light in my day!
love your story and the other from your followers.. so encouraging!
I'd love one of these books.. I've been asking Him for a good summer read that would stir my heart.
Lee
How comforting to know so many ladies are going through the same thing. I could not believe you posted this when you did! Usually I am okay with my singlehood but this week I have really been struggling and BAM! here you are reading my mind. I definitely think you offer a unique encouragement/ministry to single ladies and I appreciate that.
Do you think there's a blog out there where 300 single Godly men are posting and asking where their future wives are?
Sorry this is unrelated to this blog, but I was wondering where I could get the bowband Harper is sporting. I would love to get it for my lil neice soon to arrive in october
thanks
Lyndsay
I have several single friends who are single, and I just ache for them since they long for children and a husband. A few of my friends are now in their early 40's and still single, and they have gone through grieving that they will probably never be biological mothers even if they marry later on. It is so hard to understand God's plan.
I sit here with tears in my eyes and a pain in my heart....I am just weeks away from turning 40 and am all alone. I wonder what other women have that I don't have? I wonder what if I were thinner? What if I were younger? What if, what if, what if? What have I done to be alone in this world? Don't I deserve to be happy? Don't I deserve my hearts desires?
I try to be grateful for what God has given me, but at the same time, if you couldn't tell from the above comment, I am bitter.
Love the book giveaway idea! I had never heard of the first book, Getting Married. It looks like a great resource for any of us impatient Christian women who long for Mr. Right! Thanks for the reco!
Also, Five Love Languages is one of my faves! It not only speaks to love relationships but any relationship be it family, friends or colleagues.
I just went speed dating with 4 of my Christian friends this week and wrote a hilarious recap of it...def an experience to remember. Check it out if you have time!
Looking forward to following your blog!
~Michelle
Kelly...
I'm a single gal who found your blog through a few of my adoption blog buddies. I'm in school for nursing hoping that if I don't find My Prince Charming that I might be able to afford to adopt a child with a good career as a nurse. I'm a christian, but I too feel so out of place at our church even though it's the church I grew up in... so many times I've heard you're so beautiful why aren't you married or dating! YIKES! Anyway I love your blog because well... I love babies and Harpet is just too cute! I think you are so sweet and I always love what you have to say! Thanks for sharing your story with all of us! We love it!
I've never posted here before but felt I had to finally. I understand very well what poor Abby is going through since I am also in the process of being diagnosed with Chiari with my brain MRI being next week. Any prayers that could be sent my way also would be greatly appreciated since we are in danger of losing our kids due to my income being the only one and we haven't had that for 4 long months now.
thanks for offering this! I have just started reading your blog and have been completely encouraged.
Deborah
Kelly,
I got so excited when I found your blog and found out you went to OBU! I grew up in Hot Springs, AR and wanted to go to OBU but then realized it was too close to home and went to Union in TN. Funny thing is my parents decided to move to TN, too! My best friend growing up was a Tri Chi at OBU!!! A girl that was in her wedding is a friend of yours...saw a pic of her when Harper was in the hospital...small world!! I am 26 and single and love to read your blog! Thank you for taking the time to pray for people you don't even know! Harper is too cute!!
Sara
Hi Kelly,
Your're always so sweet to remember where you've been ... that's easy to forget, so it's so kind of you to think of others like that. I'm not single, but I'd love if you'd let me enter this giveaway for my sister. She's a regular reader of yours (Simply Staci - Staci Brown) & introduced me to your site. I know with out doubt she'd enter in this, but she's out of town during the giveaway period - she serves as a Camp Counselor every year. She's 32 & has been in every situation that you described ... she's still praying & being patient but I'd love for her to be blessed with a Godly man - she deserves it!
So if you'll let me enter for her that's great & if not, we'll both still read your blog:)
Kelly,
I came across your blog from another one I keep tabs on...you know...you read one blog, then get drawn into someone elses...and so on and so on :) Anyway...
I have never left a comment on anyone's blog (I don't even have a blog of my own) but, your post yesterday was truly God speaking through YOU to me. You see, I am 29, and about to turn 30 this October. I am single...and am currently struggling with all the things you mention. I struggle to get involved in church because I'm single (even though I go faithfully every Sunday), I am missing a wedding this weekend because I have no one to go with, and I'm realizing my single friends are few in number anymore. I go to more birthday parties of young children now than adults, and I buy more baby/wedding shower gifts than groceries sometimes!!! Anyway, even though you are a stranger, I feel so comforted by your words yesterday on being single. I pray daily for God to bless me with a godly man, but am content with the blessings he's given me thus far. I know someday it will happen (that's the part that is the true test!) Thank you so very much for sharing your thoughts...they were SUCH a comfort. P.S. your daughters is so sweet :)
I am posting a friend from church who isn't into blogs and "all that techno stuff", but I will certainly get her contact info to you if she wins. She is a 30 something, never been married girl who loves the Lord - and her family a lot.
I am a single woman, 35 years old...I pray daily that God will lead me down the path to the "man of my dreams" if that is his will. I love reading your blog...I love that you are, as you say, an ordinary woman, but I also love that you use your faith to bless others. I'd love a copy of either of those books, and as someone else said, I'll probably be ordering them if I don't win!
Your post could not have been more accurate! I would love to win the book, but I'm glad I know about it, definately going to get it! Thanks for posting!
Would love the book I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years!
I think IT'S TIME :)
brookebirke@gmail.com
Would love a Women Praying Boldly book! Although right now, being a recent college grad a job might be more useful than a man! lol! :P I'm praying for God's guidance in both areas right now!!
Kelly, I just wanted to say thank you for not forgetting about us single girls. I love what a great encouragement you are to ALL women, no matter whether we're married or not.
Both of those books look really interesting, and thanks again for remembering us! :)
I don't think 30 is that old to get married. I am glad your dreams came true though! I love the 5 love language books. Very great!
I'll be praying for these sweet girls! and all the single ladies! and oh my goodness!....harper is SO precious!
I hope I'm not too late to enter! I'm 38 and single again...and think I really need to read these books. I remember being in college and thinking...well, no one else is going to ask me...I better marry the first guy that asks. I did get a great son :-) and now a broken heart. Obviously...I'm on the wrong path!!
His timing is always perfect and this post could not have come at a better time. Of course sometimes it is hard to believe this as the years pass and friends' wedding showers make way for baby showers and ever expanding beautiful families. The books look great and perhaps I'll find a way to get my hands on them. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.
~Meghan
Thank you very much! You described me to a T! I am a 26 year old single girl struggling to find my place. I know God has a place for everyone, we just have to be patient. Your words are truely inspiring.
I have been following your blog since Harper's birth but haven't had my own account until now so I haven't posted before. Even though I am single, please don't consider me for the books because honestly, the only reading time I have is with books on cd on the way to and from work!
I just wanted to say that following your blog and watching Harper grow has really brought a little light into a dark time in my life. Harper is a precious and beautiful blessing!
I hate that I missed the book giveaway, but at least I have a new idea for an encouraging book on finding the right husband. I used to read your blog every night; then work got crazy and I had to make a schedule to check your blog every Saturday. I love watching Harper grow - she is such a cutie pie!! Maybe I am completely missing something, but I cannot find your email address. I would love to tell you more about myself, so you can pray for me along with all the others you pray for. For some reason, I feel like you have a special connection with God - maybe it's because you inspire me to be more of the woman He wants me to be. Either way, it would mean a lot to me to know that there are others praying for me. Thank you, Kelly, for having such an inspiring and encouraging life for us single girls!!
Thanks so much ladies for sharing your stories. I was really encouraged by "Ki"'s comments & how she felt that the Lord was preparing her in the waiting times!! I kind of feel like there an expiry date to what I am wanting and that it is fast approaching!!! (Lord, you know the plans you have - may I not forget!!!)
I'd love to be entered. I'm a single twenty-something who would love to be married.
I was looking all over for some words of encouragement and I found your blog. I'm almost 30, successful in my career, and still single. I've been looking for Mr. Right for so long now. It's been a huge burden for me - I feel lonely, forgotten by God at times, and sometimes I feel despair. I've watched friends and a sibling marry, gradually being left behind. Sometimes I feel like I'm not invited over as often because I don't have a partner, as though a single is a threat of some sort among couples. It hurts a lot.
I have prayed for so long about this. I know that I don't want to finish my life without having found a mate and the chance to have children of my own. I feel so afraid of future because of this - that biological clock is beginning to tick. I've tried so many things - internet dating, setup by friends, speed-dating, and nothing has been successful.
I really want God to help me find a mate, but sometimes I feel like my words are going unheard. I keep trying to figure out why, but I can't seem to understand.
I found your story encouraging and it gives me a little hope. It's hard to find an ear sometimes. My single friends are almost non-existent.
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