Kelly's Korner: Happiness!!!!

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Happiness!!!!

We have had a nice and relaxed weekend. Friday night we got Chili's to go and caught up on some home projects. Yesterday was kind of a yucky day outside so we mostly stayed around the house. The good news is the weather forecast is promising 10 straight beautiful days!!!!! I'm so excited! Here is Harper checking herself out in the mirror!

Last night we went over to eat hamburgers with Laurie and Steve and Steve's parents. The girls had fun together.

We put Harper in their exersaucer and she loved it so we are getting her one soon!!!!

But the very best news of the weekend is......................................

HARPER

SLEPT

ALL

NIGHT!!!!!

(First - see this picture??? I haven't re-touched it at all - her skin is just absolutely perfect and creamy and smooth!!! We finally found the perfect combo that worked for us after trying a ton of things and I just can't get over how great her skin has been ever since. I have been so excited! Ya'll just don't know how bad it really was but hopefully it will continue to do this well! I have a lot to be thankful for!)

Last night she slept from 9 p.m. until 7 a.m. last night!!! We didn't do anything different so I have no idea how it happened!!! All I know is I woke up in a panic at 5 a.m. after I realized we hadn't been up. She is right next to me in her pack and play!! I could hear her breathing so I woke Scott up to tell him the exciting news!!! I was also in a lot of pain from the huge watermelons on my chest that are used to every hour feedings. ha! ha!
(Now I'll just go ahead and say this since I've already had one ugly comment. If you read this blog at all - you know that I could not be more thankful or grateful to be a mom and I'm thankful even when I get up every hour in the night with her. And like I said in the last post - I love that time with her and I will miss it when we aren't getting up anymore (and trust me - I'm sure I haven't seen the last of the every hour feedings). But getting up every 2 hours for 4 months will tire you out quick and it's a huge blessing and a BIG milestone to mom and baby the first time they sleep through the night and I have EVERY RIGHT to be HAPPY and EXCITED about it. I know there are tons of people who would love to be getting up with a baby because I was one of them and I continue to pray constantly for all of them - but I can still be thrilled for a full night of sleep!! And if you can't agree with that - please do not continue to read my blog. This is my blog and I will not continue to explain away every word I say and every decision I make.)

WHEW..........................I'm sorry. I had to get that off my chest. Now for something a little lighter............how about a video of the big 4 month old girl laughing!

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Leigh Ann said...: That is SO exciting! Yay for you and for Harper. Okay, that video is the most precious thing EVER! I want to kiss whoever invented the exersaucer. It is genius! Both my kids LOVED it!; 5/17/2009 7:40 PM
Elisabeth said...: Yea for Harper! I am so sorry someone said something so mean! My husband and I have been trying for three years and I've read your blog since last spring. What a treasure Harper is and how happy I am that your her momma! I totally understood what you mean getting up in the middle of the night multiple times everyday for months can sure be tiring!

Your a blessing, I know some who've experienced infertility sometimes forget what it was like before their babies came. You've been so sweet to pray for those of us still waiting for our miracle or the girls still waiting on their prince.

I love your blog and I don't know what I'd do if you stopped!; 5/17/2009 7:43 PM
Carrie said...: 1- So are you going to post the "wonder cream" combo?? Do tell!

2-YEAH Harper! I think she just wanted to give you some good blot material to blog about it before she actually slept through the night. She is such a blog hog...what does she think? This blog is all about her?? :)

3- Good for you standing up for yourself as a mommy.

Just for the record...every single mommy I have known who had longed for years through infertility for those sleepless nights and colicky babies...once they got those sleepless nights they were certainly thankful beyond belief. But every one of the at some point felt feeligns of desperation, disappointment ,etc with their children.

It is a difficult tension between mommies and those longing to be mommies. Once they become mommies they will understand immediately... they will not feel bliss and pure joy every second of their baby's life.

And those of us that are mommies can't feel bad about expressing some of those not-so blissful moments. Because though we treasure our children...they do not always bring us pure joy and delight.

Now if you were complaining about every little thing, maybe you might need a splash of water in your face to wake you up to reality. But you're not a complainer. You give thanks to God for SO much.

So share on...we are all walking in this with you!; 5/17/2009 7:45 PM
Mary said...: Yay for Harper! Yay for her momma!; 5/17/2009 7:46 PM
Sarah said...: Yeah-I am so glad Harper slept through the night. I remember the first time my boys did it and I woke up too scared something had happened! Also, you have every right to be excited for this milestone! Congrats!; 5/17/2009 7:47 PM
FancyPants said...: Congrats on some well deserved and earned shut eye.............. and on that other little matter, let me just say........

Go Kelly, Go Kelly, it's ya birthday - NOT REALLT - but go anyway!!!

I am one of those gal's waiting to have a baby and ya know what I relish what you write, I enjoy hearing what will happen and can't wait to write about it to. Good for you!; 5/17/2009 7:49 PM
Jennifer said...: Yay Harper! That's AMAZING! I'm so excited for you!!!! Yes, you have every reason to be sooo excited!! Your poor girls!!! Those things get HUGE when the babies start sleeping through the night and it is soooo painful! I swear they have been right under my chin some mornings!:)I'm really so excited for you!; 5/17/2009 7:49 PM
Katie said...: Wow, I cant believe that there are people out there who make ugly comments at you!! You are one of the most caring people out there, it blows my mind. This person/people are either doing it to get a rise out of you or have problems and feel the need to take it out on a complete stranger because they wouldnt do it to a friend or someone they would have to face in person.

Anyway, being a Mum whether you got pregnant the first time or waited years is wonderful but it is tough too. We are allowed to have a moan about the melons (I can so relate on that one the first time my daughter slept through the night, I didnt know how to lay!!) and the sleepless nights (can relate on that one too, my son didnt sleep through until he was 15 mos old). It is healthy to enjoy the time away from our kids too - we are still an individual as well as a Mummy and I think we love them and appreciate them more when we get those precious little breaks. It doesnt mean we love them any less. (I know you didnt mention that but its true)

Anyway, keep doing what you are doing, block the person from your blog if you can so you dont have to be hurt by their nasty comments.
Katie :o)
Texas; 5/17/2009 7:51 PM
Meg said...: Rock on for a full nights sleep! Congrats to you. The video was adorable, it was the nice little break I needed from studying for this stupid test tomorrow.; 5/17/2009 7:51 PM
Anonymous said...: I just Love Harper's laugh. So Precious!

You should never have to apologize for rejoicing in milestones like sleeping through the night. For that matter, you are right. It is your blog and you can say whatever you want. You are a human being and without getting normal amounts of sleep, eventually it will and does wear your whole body down. It's only natural to need that sleep and want it. Not to mention, it's a wonderful thing when your baby sleeps extended periods throughout the night. \ I'm going to be honest. I love, love, love Avery and would do it again a thousand times waking up with her multiple times a night and I did enjoy and embrace that time, BUT it was HARD trying to work and be a great mom surviving on minimal hours of interrupted sleep. I'm proud of you for standing up for how you feel and you are an awesome mom!; 5/17/2009 7:52 PM
G. said...: Just in case any breastfeeding moms or moms to be are reading this - I wanted to comment on one of your comments above...by Michelle.

Please take this in the most respectful way...
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) advises breastfeeding exclusively for the first 12 months of baby's life (obviously supplementing with solids...not formula after 6 months).
Michelle states that her pediatrician said breastmilk is no longer satisfying or nutritious! I am stunned that any educated medical professional would tell this to a mother. In any case, breastmilk continues to be MORE nutritious and equally satisfying (so long as mother's supply is sufficient) as formula.

Just wanted to point this out for all the moms who are currently breastfeeding or are interested in breastfeeding once baby arrives. A wonderful source of information online is www.kellymom.com

I ALSO wanted to say (and this is what I came here to say originally ..lol) that Harper is B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L!! So precious and perfect. I adore the recent pictures of her!!; 5/17/2009 7:54 PM
MaryBe said...: Ha I just love that you woke up your hubby, to tell him Harper slept all night! :)
And that video is precious!; 5/17/2009 7:54 PM
newmanfamily said...: I am just plain jealous she slept through the night. My one-year-old (as of this past Friday, the 15th)was up every 2 hours to nurse last night. I am one tuckered out Mommy! I hope it continues for you.; 5/17/2009 7:55 PM
Anonymous said...: Awww, her laugh is darling! I don't have kids yet, but I do understand why you'd be so happy that she slept all through the night. I don't know why people have to be mean & hateful on here. I guess b/c they are anonymous and think they can get away with it, but just ignore those immature comments. I am sure they are just unhappy people and we should pray for them as well! Enjoy your time with your beautiful baby girl! Oh, and her skin is beautiful!!!; 5/17/2009 7:55 PM
Michelle said...: Yay for sleeping all night! And I totally understand how exciting it is to find an excema "cure" that works for your baby. We also put our daughter in the excersaucer at 4 months. It's great for developing those core muscles.; 5/17/2009 7:56 PM
Fabiola said...: She is so precious!!!
Happy (late) Birthday Little One!!!
She is becoming a little girl, enjoy your time with her.
What about these people who make mean comments?? There is a popular saying in Portuguese that says: In a shut mouth, the mosquitoes don´t go inside (it doesn´t rhyme in English the same way that does in Portuguese), but you get the sense of the popular saying: )

Fabiola; 5/17/2009 7:57 PM
Beki said...: So sorry someone felt the need to convey a negative comment...you SHOULD feel happy,excited, and thankful Harper slept through the night. Like you mentioned getting up every 2-3 hours during the night for 4 months takes its toll on a mama...not to mention along w/ the cooking, cleaning, organizing, & being a wife, daughter, friend, etc. Hope you have a wonderful week and enjoy the great weather!!!; 5/17/2009 7:59 PM
Ashley said...: Harper is just too stinkin cute! I love the picture of her admiring herself in the mirror! Congrats on the good nights sleep. About those people who have negative things to say to you...I feel bad for those people because they obviously have nothing better to do with themselves than to try to hurt other people. How sad for them. But I love reading your blog and love seeing how Harper is growing and thriving!; 5/17/2009 8:01 PM
Todd and Courtney said...: Oh girl, you might not get to read this since Im way way late on posting but I HATE that you get mean comments. Its so mean and I feel like some people just don't have anything else to do but judge other people. You have had such an important impact on my life, connecting me back to Jesus. I LOVE your blog, your mom is precious and has left me a sweet comment on mine, and Harper is adorable!; 5/17/2009 8:02 PM
The Charton's said...: Congratulations Kelly! Sleep at last!! I have a 5 month old baby girl and she did the same thing about 1 month ago, I did not do anything different either. She slept 8 hrs one night, 10, the next, 12, the next and then 13!!! She has now settled for 11 to be her fav number. But man it makes a difference in a sleepy mommas life. You deserve it! Don't worry about any negative comments and I agree, you shouldn't have to explain yourself.
Shelley; 5/17/2009 8:04 PM
Jenna said...: I love the first picture of her looking in the mirror! It's like she is thinking, "My word, I really AM as cute as everyone says!"

Congrats on her sleeping! What a big girl!! That is SO exciting, and I hope she decides to repeat from here on out!

And people just kill me with their desire to be rude and stir up trouble. I wish I knew who was being ugly to you because you know Jenna would come from the GA and CUT them. ;-)

P.S. That video is PRICELESS. Love ya'll!; 5/17/2009 8:05 PM
Erica said...: I always wonder about the folks that make rude comments on blogs.
I wonder did their mom not teach them...if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all :); 5/17/2009 8:09 PM
Anonymous said...: As the mama to an almost 2 year old lil sweetie, who I love and adore, who also doesn't sleep *thru* the night every night---I can totally understand your excitement!!
It's HUGE when I wake up in the am, realizing that he's slept thru-because it's NOT every night, or even every other night!!
You certainly DO have EVERY RIGHT to be thrilled!!
whoot!!!!; 5/17/2009 8:10 PM
Chele said...: Yay for Miss Harper! When my babies were not sleeping through the night it seemed like torture! Shame on anyone who would leave a negative comment about you being able to get a full night's rest since Harper's birth. I just don't understand that at all! You have nothing to feel bad for! Enjoy your sleep! ;) It always made be a better momma!

PS Loved the video of that sweet babe!; 5/17/2009 8:10 PM
Melissa said...: Kelly,
I fixed the green bean bundles and the swiss chicken for our anniversay last week and LOVED it!! Thanks for sharing your recipes!
Melissa; 5/17/2009 8:11 PM
Allison said...: I don't comment very often but wanted to encourage you and thank you for your honesty and don't think you need to watch what you say, you are right this is your blog....I will be the first to say that I had my second daughter and she never slept longer then 1 hour and 45 min for the entire 14 months that I nursed her and it was so tiring. You have every right to be happy about her sleeping through the night. The is a huge deal and very exciting. Hope she does it more often for you. I also wanted to comment that I love the pictures of Harper by the sign of her age, I did that will my girls every month on the same chair by the same stuffed animal until they turned 1 year and It is so neat to see how they change. Thanks for sharing your life and little one with us all. God Bless.; 5/17/2009 8:12 PM
Courtney said...: She is precious! And you don't have to explain ANYTHING to ANYONE! YAY for sleeping through the night...I mean really! YAY!!!!; 5/17/2009 8:13 PM
Angie said...: Kelly, she is so cute!! Congrats on having her sleep through the night, I was so happy when my kids slept through the night the first time, but like you I panicked at first because I thought something was wrong with them!
Take care!; 5/17/2009 8:14 PM
JenB said...: How sad that you felt you had to explain yourself on your own blog. It's awesome that she finally slept all night. And you are right. It doesn't matter who you are, months without sleep are HARD!!
Now you go sleep as much as you can and don't waste your time worrying about what other people say!! Here's to many more restful nights!!; 5/17/2009 8:16 PM
roadrunner201 said...: That is just it! You should not have to justify anything you say on YOUR blog! Go girl! Way to stick up for yourself!

I remember waking in a panic the first time my little one slept more than three hours at a time. He's six months now and JUST started sleeping through the night a week ago. Congrats on that and I am so glad for you that she is doing that already!

Love that baby laughter!; 5/17/2009 8:17 PM
Unknown said...: For what it's worth...I enjoyed your rant! I love my time with my near 4 month old at night too and still look forward to our first sleep through the night. I hope you experience only kindness in your comments. Your heart is evident in your desire to be sensitive to other's situations and still voicing your feelings about where you are. Keep sharing!; 5/17/2009 8:19 PM
Unknown said...: Harper is darling as always! And you shouldnt worry about "explaining" yourself and justifying being excited about her sleeping all night (which is HUGE, by the way!)-- ANYONE who reads your blog for 2 seconds can tell how over the moon you are for that baby girl and how grateful to God you are for her! That makes me ill just thinking about someone saying something ugly on here! Whew...anyway!!!!! Glad yall have gotten the eczema under control, too-- we've FINALLY just done the same thing, and our girl is 5 mos old! :); 5/17/2009 8:23 PM
Allikaye's Mama said...: Yay for Harper..and you and Scott! Those mean comments are wierd! I got some for a comment I made about nursing Allikaye...makes ya sad, but there are bigger things...like that little girl's laugh...precious!; 5/17/2009 8:30 PM
Maire said...: Oh she is just the sweetest doll!! Congrats on a full nights sleep!! All Mama's need this, not matter how much we love spending time with our babies...I just have to say this about the nasty commenter; didnt your mama ever teach you that unless you have something nice to say, dont say anything at all???; 5/17/2009 8:30 PM
Brian, Melanie, Kaelyn, Gretchen, and Sophie said...: Kelly,

Don't feel bad for feeling happy that Harper slept through the night! Our first daughter did not sleep straight through the night for 18 months, and, she, like Harper, woke up every two to three hours to eat . . . so I know how thrilling it is to finally sleep more than two hours at a time. While our daughter was bottle-fed, it was no less tiring to get up every two hours throughout the night.

We are being induced tomorrow morning and our second daughter should be here sometime in the afternoon. I hope this baby is a better sleeper! We should exchange phone numbers so that we have someone to talk to during those late night feedings!

May God continue to bless you and your family.

Melanie; 5/17/2009 8:34 PM
Melissa Miller said...: What a precious video!

WooHoo for ~sleep~!; 5/17/2009 8:37 PM
Michelle said...: Glory be. Sleeping through the night. Don't apologize at all at being excited about that. I have a nine month old, and I remember that day way. I was so excited. I haven't figured out the formula either. I can't figure out what makes him sleep some nights and not others:)
You are a blessing tome!; 5/17/2009 8:38 PM
jenn said...: Why would anyone say anything nasty about your blog?? What is wrong with people?

I am so glad Harper slept through the night--I hope she keeps it up! It is hard getting up all hours in the night!! My Andrew is up every 4 hours or so--not too bad, but he wakes around 5 and I am not ready to get up for the day and then he is back to sleep when it is time for me to get up and I am ready to drop! but it will pass!!

Take care and enjoy your beautiful weather!

jenn; 5/17/2009 8:46 PM
TerraD said...: YAY for you, Kelly! I loved your little response to the naysayers. You couldn't have said it better! Congratulations on Harper sleeping through the night and hoping it continues for you!; 5/17/2009 8:48 PM
Bella's mommy said...: Amen!!!! I love your stance on that subject and confidence as a mom! Harper is absolutely beautiful and is just as lucky and blessed to have you as you are to have her!; 5/17/2009 8:49 PM
John and Susan Combs said...: How wonderful!!!! A baby sleeping through the night. That extra sleep will make you an even better mommy! Whenever someone says something mean or rude to me, I just try to think what they might be dealing with. You never know what their circumstances are. Hopefully they were just having a really bad day and truly regret their ugly comment. Congratulations again!; 5/17/2009 8:50 PM
3boysmom said...: I am SO happy that you were able to get a full night of sleep! I've been really feeling for you. I only had to do the night time feedings for eight weeks (luckily with all 3 of my boys they started sleeping thru at that time) and it was exhausting. I cannot imagine doing it for four months (or longer). I hope that Miss Harper will start sleeping this well every night. It will change your life!!

Sorry that someone felt they needed to leave you a nasty comment. That is too bad. Just keep being yourself and ignore those that want to hurt you. Thanks for keeping it real with all of us!; 5/17/2009 8:52 PM
Jordan said...: I love how her eyes get wide/big as she's anticipating your tickle! haha Too cute!; 5/17/2009 8:56 PM
Jessica said...: Praise God for the full-night's sleep...for you, your hubby, and for Harper---it's great for each of you! And by the same token, praise God for the beautiful babies that keep us up all night for months awaiting that glorious first night of sleep! It's awesome either way! I agree, it's great quality time, but just as precious to rest sometimes! How exciting, thanks for sharing this with all of us who've been following the story of Harper and her parents! So happy for all of you! (Oh, and it may or may not have been anything you've done...she just may be getting closer to that transition in her own little body. Whatever works!); 5/17/2009 8:56 PM
Becki Francy said...: Kelly so sorry someone stole your joy today - sleeping through the night is a big deal. And if someone is making you feel bad for doing it - then shame on them! I tried for years to get pregnant - and even though it took me forever to get pregnant, I was so thankful to finally get rest once my kids slept through the night.; 5/17/2009 8:58 PM
Anonymous said...: Kelly....I'm so sorry that someone would be rude to you! You are the most sincere, godly woman and you do not deserve that!!

SOOOOO happy that she's sleeping better!!! A rested mommy is a happy mommy!!!; 5/17/2009 8:59 PM
Jessica said...: p.s. just a personal note...my daughter never had an excersaucer, but my son has been using one....the Fisher Price Rainforest Jumperoo! It's amazing, and many other parents I know swear by it for strengthening the legs and the light/sound/touch toys for the kids. Good deals online for 'em, too! Usually $80-85, I got mine for $65 online via Walmart. Ok, just throwing it out there in case you're up for ideas!; 5/17/2009 9:00 PM
becca said...: girl, you have got to not worry about what idiots who do not even know you say. You MUST know it stems from jealousy. They do not like the fact that you are happy so they say things to try to take some of that away from you. This IS your blog and you can share whatever you want, you do not have to explain it. For example, when you left the mother's day post and then removed it b/c some folks got offended... I am not one who has had to try even to get pregnant. It *has* come easy for us and I am grateful for that. I *do* treasure every second with my kids *including* the middle of the night feedings (Elijah still wakes in the night... I was feeding him thru the night right up to a year, now he wakes and wants in bed with me... something I HAVE to break him of this summer since baby #5 is coming), but no, your post did not offend me. This is your blog, a place to share your thoughts, whatever they may be. I didn't even like that you removed the post even though I couldn't agree with it, it doesn't matter. People need to get over it. We will never all agree on anything.
Me, I'm a massive breastfeeding supporter. I posted something one time that offended a gal and she commented about it. But ya know? That *is* how I feel... and it *is* my blog. I have students who read my blog and if the stuff I post about breastfeeding could encourage them to do so, I make no apologies for that. I can't control other people's reactions. I don't have the *intention* of offending, but some folk just like to get offended :)
You sing on about getting a full night's sleep. I got one last night and you better believe I was excited (yea, Elijah is TWO) but I don't expect it to continue. He does it every once in a while. All my kids have been different... from sleep thru at 6 weeks Abigail... to the "I could never deal with that" Elijah who still wakes up. You can deal with what you have.
Seriously, Harper is your baby and ignore those idiots. Don't even respond to them :) Delete and move on :); 5/17/2009 9:03 PM
The Carpenters said...: Praise God for a full night's sleep!! :) I have twin 8 month olds and we are STILL getting up at night. Argh. It was rough going for about two months...every two hours on a different schedule means I was getting up every hour to feed. Moo. ;)
Isn't it sad that you have to explain yourself? Don't you feel like you're walking on eggshells? If someone doesn't like what you say, please don't apologize. You can never make everyone happy. Just be yourself, say what you want, and we'll still follow.
P.S. Every time I pass a Sonic now I think of you! :)
And that Harper and her laugh...TOO cute!; 5/17/2009 9:03 PM
Lisa said...: YEAH!!!!! Congrats! Once that happens again and again you will feel like a new woman I promise you. And yes you have EVERY right to be excited. It's a great thing for you and Harper. I hate that you get rude comments. That is just awful! I love yours and Harper's laugh. She is so loved and she definitely loves you too!!!
Have a wonderful week with your sweet girl.; 5/17/2009 9:06 PM
kb's blogspot said...: Be greatful for sleeping through the night and don't let someone elses comments make you think less. Being a mom is wonderful and difficult, even for those of us who had difficulty growing our families. Love your blog and your wit.; 5/17/2009 9:06 PM
Always a Southern Girl said...: Harper is just a cutie! Congrats on sleeping all night!; 5/17/2009 9:09 PM
Unknown said...: Loved your post!; 5/17/2009 9:09 PM
Blue-Eyed Bride said...: what a big day in the Stamps house!!! yay for all of you! especially you, kelly. i can't relate to the exhaustion (yet-- our baby is coming via c-section on may 28) but i've heard a lot about it and i know that 4 months of little sleep can really get you down. i'm just so excited for you!

and bravo for not wanting to explain yourself for everything you say. it's your blog. be yourself. you're so awesome!; 5/17/2009 9:12 PM
Debbi said...: Yah for sleep!!!
No matter how long you ached for a baby and no matter how GRATEFUL you are for each & every moment you get to be with your miracle, it is exciting when you get some good sleep! CELEBRATE & ENJOY!

Once again adorable baby & adorable pictures!; 5/17/2009 9:16 PM
ashley said...: WAY TO GO HARPER! keep it up!!! :); 5/17/2009 9:16 PM
Krissy said...: Yeah for sleep --- that is a BIG milestone! Love the video and that last pic!! Have a blessed week :o); 5/17/2009 9:17 PM
Marla Taviano said...: Way to put your foot down, girl. Proud of you for putting yourself out there, even if it means dealing with some nasty.

If God is glorified, we can take it, huh? Prayed for you just now. I know how easy it is to let one itty-bitty negative cancel out a zillion positives. Don't let it!!

Hugs! And hooray for Harper!! (sorry about the watermelons!) :); 5/17/2009 9:18 PM
Alexis said...: Super-duper sweet! Love the laughing! Can't wait for my own miracle baby to just let it out like that. He's still trying to figure it all out.; 5/17/2009 9:19 PM
Kristen said...: I would just delete those ugly comments without an afterthought!

I just had to hit play on your video since my 'baby' is now 2.5. My 9 and 7 year old came running to watch too. We were all smiling. A baby's laughter is the most beautiful sound!

Here's to another restful night for you and empowerment to use the delete button on nasty comments!!; 5/17/2009 9:20 PM
Oonie said...: Oh, who in the world could post an ugly comment? They need to get out of your blog if they can't be happy for you on such a great day! (That "great day" would be "the first one with a full night's sleep in several months.") Yay you, yay Harper...and...not to be a voice of doom but it may not happen again for a little while. But fear not! It can be done! You'll get there! And I hope she proves me wrong and sleeps all night every night from here on out! :); 5/17/2009 9:24 PM
Ashley said...: The video is precious! Love those laughs!!!

And I remember waking up in a panic the first time my kids slept through the night. Then I could hardly lift my arms because I hadn't nursed all night. I'd have to change my wet shirt and pump before I nursed to relieve some of the pressure. Holy cow that is painful!!!; 5/17/2009 9:27 PM
McFarland Family said...: YAHOOOO way to go Harper!!! I bet you feel like a new woman. She is such a cutie pie!; 5/17/2009 9:27 PM
rhilborn said...: Yay for sleeping through the night! I have been meaning to post, especially after you mentioned that you were thinking of starting solids early because of Harper's current sleep/eat schedule. My son is about 6 weeks older than Harper and we just went through this:)! He was feeding every 2 hours all day and night for about 3 weeks right before and after he was 4 months old. My NP was suggesting he needed solids even though that wasn't the plan until 6 months. But, I had a WONDERFUL nurse, who was an experienced breast feeder, who encouraged me that growth spurts at this age are longer and to keep with it. If God's timing isn't every perfect, my son started sleeping longer stretches again the next day. Only as much as you can handle! Anyway, it was the encouragement I needed to give him more time and I am now nearing 6 months and feeling apprehension over the gradual weaning process that will start with the introduction of solids?! All that is to say, you are not alone and be of good cheer! We all rejoice with you in the small joys of motherhood, like when they sleep for a long time, and also when they can't get enough mommy time;).; 5/17/2009 9:32 PM
Ryan said...: Congrats on STTN!!!! Perhaps there's still hope for us and our little one. :-) But, you're right, it's wonderful time!; 5/17/2009 9:32 PM
Katy said...: She is just a doll. We loved our exersaucer!!!! All the kids used one!

Gotta love a nice relaxing weekend! Thanks for sharing your blessing!
~Kate; 5/17/2009 9:32 PM
Lindsey said...: Yay for Harper! I look forward to that night with my 5 month old!

Also, just because you want your baby to sleep doesn't mean you love her any less. We are human and we NEED sleep!

I just don't understand why people leave you ugly comments. I love reading your blog because it is so great and honest!; 5/17/2009 9:35 PM
Anonymous said...: i wonder if her sleeping all night had to do with her exzema (sp?) being cleared up. My son has it and when he has a flare up he has a terrible time getting comfortable at night! Enjoy your rest !
Love Cari; 5/17/2009 9:37 PM
annalee said...: i squealed with delight when i read the great news! celebrating last night with you guys and praying for more rest in the nights to come. that harper just keeps making me smile day after day. as do you!; 5/17/2009 9:37 PM
Mandy said...: I love your pure faith and your honest heart. I don't know that I've ever met anyone more grateful to be a mother! I'm so sorry you feel you have to explain yourself on your own blog. Trust me when I say that every milestone is going to be just as frustrating to get there as it is exciting to make it. But you know what? We all know that does not mean you love that little angel any less! Congratulations on a good night's sleep! (I'm weaning this week so I am sympathizing with you and your watermelons!); 5/17/2009 9:39 PM
Leslie said...: I so enjoy reading your blog. I have also come through infertility. We had our baby on our 3rd IVF. I am so glad you got those thoughts off your chest. I agree this is your blog about your life, and you should be able to share the things in your life that make you happy or sad w/o people giving you a guilt trip about it. Enjoy this time and don't let those negative comments get to you. You have done so much good with this blog, and the world can see God's love through you. The people who have negative comments NEED to just leave you alone and not read your blog if they can't keep their negative comments to themselves.; 5/17/2009 9:53 PM
Anneliese said...: Love her smiles & laughs! Not sure what mother would not be proud and excited to get a good nights sleep. I also breastfeed...so I know what it feels like to be woke by those mellons.

Harper is growing so quick! Enjoying all the new updates. The exersaucer and jumparoo are great at this stage. They replaced my sons swings and bouncy seat for entertainment. Now at 6 months he wants out of all things stationary to crawl. Keep loving those sweet cheeks!

PS- Don't worry about judgemental comments...some people feel the need to share their opinions without tact. It is your blog! :))))); 5/17/2009 9:55 PM
The Timbs Clan said...: Hey Kelly
1st off I love your blog!!! Im dont understand why you feel you need or have to explain away how you feel and Im sorry if people have decided to leave ugly comments! The truth of the matter is your a new mom just like any other new mom and You have stress, and worries and you pray for 1 good nights rest that is totally NORMAL!!!
So the good news is that even after you trying and trying to get pregnant and then you do get pregnant then even after Harpers tough entrance into the world, YOU ARE STILL A NORMAL NEW MOTHER!!!!
You owe no one an explanation for any of the things you feel. I love your honesty your boldness and your faith! Write what you want and if people dont like it they can STOP following your blog so from now on when you read your comments if there is even a hint of rudeness or negative remarks just stop reading them right then and HIT DELETE!!! Now I dont know if you will even get to my comment since you already have like 200 LOL But I hope you do because I want to tell you that you are completely normal you crave that BREAK just like everyone else just because your tired of every hour or every 2 hrs feedings doesnt make you a bad mother and it doesnt mean your are any less grateful! So you write anything you want in your blog after all its your blog about your life your family and your feelings!

In Christ
Kristy; 5/17/2009 9:55 PM
Jess :) said...: Oh sister friend, you have got to put more of those stinkin' precious videos on your blog!!! :) I could watch it over and over...just like I watch my nephew's videos over and over. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE it!!!

Also, you just continue to write about ANYTHING your beautiful heart desires! I love every word you say and can't wait until the next time you post to see what's new with all of you. I'm thrilled that Harper slept through the night. AMEN for that!! I remember my sister feeling the same way when Jorgen did that! And yes, she was pretty much a hurting unit, as well!! :)

Thanks again for the adorable pictures and for the video!!

Love you tons and tons!; 5/17/2009 9:58 PM
Teresa said...: Yea!!! For a full nights sleep for both you and Harper!! She is such a little cutie.; 5/17/2009 9:58 PM
Paigie Poof said...: I've been reading your blog for a few months now, but I haven't commented until now. We've been TTC for about 15 months, and I wanted you to know how inspiring I find your blog. The obvious hopefulness and strength found within your stories have helped me through the disappointments that are inevitable in infertility struggles. I cannot believe that someone would be so heartless as to criticize a mother's excitement as to having a full night's sleep; words cannot express how sorry I am that you have to deal with that. Thank you for your blog and for providing a ray of sunshine. Sorry for the length of this comment, but I couldn't figure out where your email address is =) I'm praying for you and your beautiful family.; 5/17/2009 10:04 PM
noahandlylasmommi said...: She is just beautiful! So glad her skin is better. And woo-hoo for a full night of sleep! Love the video. Your accent is so cute :0); 5/17/2009 10:05 PM
Angie said...: Sorry you have been getting ugly comments, because I think your blog is great! Harper is so sweet.; 5/17/2009 10:06 PM
Anonymous said...: I'm sure it's the same thing that everyone else is saying, but just ignore those ugly people leaving ugly comments or delete them or whatever, but don't worry about them because we love you! Of course you have every right to be happy. Anyone who thinks otherwise obviously has no kids. When they start sleeping through the night, it's the greatest thing in the world. And I remember waking in a panic with my boobs KILLING me and I had to get up anyway just to pump! Ha! Had to get up either way, what luck. :) You're doing awesome and keep up the good work!; 5/17/2009 10:16 PM
Nancy Bane said...: Sweetie, you just ignore the negative people. I've been blessed that BOTH my children started sleeping through the night (11 hours straight!!) at only eight weeks old. Even my preemie who was 6 weeks early...and while I'm grateful that both children are healthy and happy, sleeping through the night is a wonderful thing!! I know some who have two years old and they have NEVER slept through the night once. You have a right to be happy at big milestones, and small ones. Ignore the haters!!; 5/17/2009 10:19 PM
Angela said...: So glad she slept! I bet you felt like a whole new woman! ;-)

Can't wait to my baby girl does!; 5/17/2009 10:21 PM
Sarah Sharp said...: Congrats on the sleep! That is awesome!! And I don't know if the panicky feelings ever go away when your child sleeps longer than expected. Will is 13 months and he slept 15 hours Friday night and 14 last night and I was a little worried both mornings!

She is adorable! Aren't baby laughs the BEST?; 5/17/2009 10:22 PM
Abbie said...: Oh how great to hear that she slept through the night!

And that video...just PRECIOUS!!; 5/17/2009 10:23 PM
laurensmommy said...: So glad Harper slept so well!
As far as the watermelons, ha, I've been there! Sometimes they nurse more frequently for a while to stimulate you to make more milk! Between 4-5 months seemed like there was some major milk production going on for me and Lauren!
Hope she continues to sleep well! This is a major milestone...and I look forward to reading many more to come!
Go Harper!! :); 5/17/2009 10:28 PM
Melissa said...: AMEN SISTER! What on earth are people thinking??? Having a baby that sleeps through the night is an amazing accomplishment/milestone, and you should be so grateful and so happy because of it! I remember waiting for that day, waking in a panic as you did, and just smiling in the early morning because my baby had done it! It also gives you so much confidence in knowing they can make it through the night, and how you know they aren't necessarily starving all night long. Way to go Harper! :); 5/17/2009 10:30 PM
Angel said...: isn't it WONDERFUL!! the weather and the sleep!! haha

I have an 8 month old baby boy, my first and I have to say you go girl for getting up like that....My baby has slept the last THREE nights and I GIVE GOD THE PRAISE!!

It makes for a lot better day for me and him both when we're well rested! Here's to hoping for a good nights sleep for him and Harper tonight!; 5/17/2009 10:34 PM
Danielle @ Living Out Loud said...: Kelly - Would you mind sharing what combination worked for you to get Harper's skin to clear up... I'd love to know as both of my kids have skin issues! THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!!; 5/17/2009 10:37 PM
Bridget said...: I LOOOOOVVVVVVVEEEEEE your blog and I love my kids too all 5 of them and I am sooooooo thankful for each one of them and the fact that I get to be a SAHM to them but you will hear me complain once in awhile about how hard it is:). It's our blogs we can say what we want...I've been getting mean comments too...oh well! Your a good mommy:); 5/17/2009 10:39 PM
Lynn said...: Kelly, we've never met but I read your blog daily and enjoy it greatly!! I agree with the other bloggers, it's your blog and you should not have to defend yourself, your feelings or comments you post about your sweet Harper! Goodness gracious! WE enjoy reading about her and what she's up to. =) BTW, love the video and hearing her laughing--adorable!! Congrats on the full night's sleep!

God Bless!; 5/17/2009 10:46 PM
Anonymous said...: Let me just say AMEN! I went through NINE years of infertility and I felt really bad about "complaining" about things that I waited so long to experience. But it was how I was really feeling. No one can every know how thankful I am and not for one second do I take my miracles for granted but that doesn't mean I'm super woman and never get tired or cranky or would like to sleep! It's ok to share those feelings (especially on your own blog!!)! Anyway I'm glad you shared what you did!
And congrats on a full nights sleep! That's awesome.
Question for you - can you share your secret to getting Harper's eczema under control. We are having so many problems and have tried everything and still no improvement.
Thanks so much!; 5/17/2009 10:50 PM
The Garners said...: Kelly, she is such a DOLL!!!! Congratulations on her sleeping through the night, oh what a BIG milestone and a time to celebrate!

I hate that people leave rude comments on personal blogs--I'm mad at the person who had the nerve to leave you a rude comment--you're the sweetest, most sincere, loving person on earth! :) I loved your response! Someone left us a comment about their shock at our decision to let R have a computer in his room for his birthday. They said it was "dangerous"--as if we didn't think of the risks associated with the internet and make full use of parental controls, etc. Ugh--it made us so mad!; 5/17/2009 11:03 PM
Bri said...: you have every right to celebrate! congrats! (i am typing with my left hand as i feed my little one :o); 5/17/2009 11:07 PM
Shelby and Darby said...: love the pics! My daughter will be five months last week and she has been sleeping all night for about a week...it is great!!! I can't find your email address so i hope you will be able to answer this question...what did you use on harper's face?? i have tried several combos too but haven't found what works yet!!; 5/17/2009 11:12 PM
Emmelie said...: Kelly, I love reading your blog! Even though I'm not a mom yet, I was a nanny for newborn twins last year, and I used to stay with them five nights a week to help them get on an eating/sleeping schedule when they were itty bitty. It was exhausting, wonderful, and challenging all at once, and I felt so accomplished and grateful when they finally slept through the night, but missed getting up to feed the angels several times a night. So in a way I know how you feel about Harper sleeping through the night! Congratulations, she's adorable! Sweet dreams : ); 5/17/2009 11:30 PM
2 Little Irish Boys said...: YOU GO KELLY!!
A mama needs her rest so she can be there for her babies in every way! Glad you got at least a little off your chest--he-he!!! I feel for you because I am lucky and have always had sleepin' babies--but I am still in need of sleep!!
Well said in the post--Your Blog!!!; 5/17/2009 11:32 PM
Ruthie said...: Kelly,

Isn't it fun when they check themselves out in the mirror? My 8 1/2 mos. old son, Riley, always ends up trying to eat his face... it's SO funny! Harper's skin is beautiful! Though, like you said, I never even noticed she had a problem. She is getting to be such a big girl and I'm thankful, especially for your sake, that she slept through the night! Those long nights are really so hard, even though the late night cuddles are so sweet. I adored hearing her giggle, but I have to say, hearing your blissful laughter, that was so neat. I know Harper is such a blessing and gift to you and Scott, and that you cherish each moment and milestone. Getting to actually hear your joy, audibly, was so fun for me!!! You're such a devoted and faithful Mama, and you are doing such an excellent job! Keep enjoying all the giggles, cuddles and ... sleep!!! :)

Ruthie; 5/17/2009 11:34 PM
Amber said...: Whooo hoooo! That is exciting! I bet your body was loving a full, good night's sleep! I can't imagine anyone not understanding how exciting that was. No matter how much you adore that precious girl, you still need sleep and your body is probably so ready to get some "catch up" rest. I hope you'll still get to enjoy a few times connecting in the quiet of a late night feeding, but it would be wonderful if she goes some longer stretches and continues to let you catch some extended zzz's too! :) She is so adorable! And that is fabulous that her skin is doing so much better!; 5/17/2009 11:39 PM
Shari said...: Kelly, there's always got to be somebody who finds fault. Sadly, they are usually sad people themselves! And YAY for all night!; 5/17/2009 11:40 PM
hbeary said...: You should NEVER have to explain yourself or defend yourself to ANYONE! You are a GREAT mom, I have thoroughly enjoyed following your site since Harper's birth, and I am thrilled that she is a healthy, happy, well~loved, BEAUTIFUL baby!!!; 5/17/2009 11:42 PM
Annie said...: Kelly I'm sorry that you've had a negative comment...I also don't understand why others feel the need to makes ugly comments about the person who commented. They don't know this person or their hurts.

You are right, you should haven't to explain yourself...you have shown in every post your love for your daughter and how blessed you are to have her and be the best mom you can be! Every milestone we see our children make should be celebrated...sleeping through the night is one of them.

I do pray that Harper does continue to sleep...I do know how good it does feel!!; 5/17/2009 11:47 PM
Unknown said...: Yay, for your first full night sleep in ages. As a mother you never realise just how much lack of sleep can effect you. I pray you start getting more wholesome sleep in order for you to enjoy motherhood all the more.; 5/17/2009 11:52 PM
Jennifer said...: Kelly,

Awesome Harper! That's awesome that she is sleeping more! I AM SORRY about your watermelons though, that can be painful and surprising when you become drenched. You'll miss your night night feedings, but enjoy other times too. Yeah for mommy & Harper! Enjoy the weather this week! We all still love your blog & think your a wonderful mommy and inspiration! My daughter's 2+ and I still go in and check on her and watch her sleep. I LOVE it!; 5/18/2009 12:08 AM
Callisters said...: She is darling! It is always a wonderful feeling when they sleep through the night, but amazing that we do not! Don't feel bad about being happy about it, I am due to have my 4 in seven months and I am getting nervous thinking about how I am going to function with no sleep. But I have noticed with my other kids that once I told people that they were sleeping good the very next night was horrible. So after awhile I tried not to express my exciting news because I didn't want to jinx it. Hopefully you have better luck then I did with expressing happy sleeping news!!!; 5/18/2009 12:13 AM
Anonymous said...: I hate it when people leave ugly comments. I hate it when the blogger feels she has to qualify what is said...why can't people just chill!
Still praying in Seattle!
Psalms 31:1-3 In thee, O LORD, do I put my trust; let me never be ashamed: deliver me in thy righteousness. Bow down thine ear to me; deliver me speedily: be thou my strong rock, for an house of defence to save me. For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name's sake lead me, and guide me.
Prayer Bears My email address; 5/18/2009 12:22 AM
Ki said...: My friend, you should NEVER apologize again for celebrating the milestones of your sweet girl. Anyone who doesn't get the big deal of SLEEPING THROUGH THE NIGHT is romanticizing sleep deprivation. It doesn't make you any less grateful- just more well-rested. Go Harper Go!; 5/18/2009 12:24 AM
Christy said...: Kelly, My husband & I were married 8 years before our son. I prayed A LOT of prayers to get pregnant but I also prayed A LOT of prayers for a good nights sleep! I've been reading for months now and I love your story, I come back hoping to read more. i am so proud you got to sleep thru the night and I remember doing the EXACT thing - waking up to find I had slept thru a feeding and was scared to death at first. THEN came the WOOHOO shortly LOL! I hope it is many more for you both!! You'll have more energy, she'll be happier and it will mean she is growing and that is perfecto!!! :D; 5/18/2009 12:43 AM
Kimberly Canada said...: Kelly,
I, too, was one of those people that longed to be a mommy and I admit that inside myself I would have some pretty negative thoughts when someone else got pregnant or complained about anything to do with being a mom. I think its natural. BUT...I think saying something to you is petty, full of envy and jealousy. How can anyone not be happy for you and your precious little girl. Enjoy every second you have with her, and feel free to gripe and complain about explosive diapers, no sleep and everything else, thats what moms do with each other. IT DOESNT MEAN WE ARENT COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH OUR CHILDREN. My daughter, who was adopted, and my son, who was a surprise homegrown baby can challenge me, make me cry with anger, frustration and joy. Its all part of motherhood. ENJOY!!!
Kimberly in Canada; 5/18/2009 2:01 AM
Liz said...: First of all I am sooo happy that you got a good nights sleep and so did Harper! I am a first time commentor on your blog and probably wouldn't be commenting at all had it not been for you statement about someone saying something not so nice. I, too, waiting 14.5 years to be a mommy and let me tell you you still have a right to sleep. Just because you wait so long to be blessed by a baby does not mean you can't say you are sad, mad, disappointed, tired, or angry about something with your life right now. Hello, we are all human. I know when my DD was finally here I was so happy but she was getting up every hour to nurse and I was worn out. It puts astrain not only on your mind but also spills over to your baby. Your baby can feel when you are tired and stressed too. So for you both to get a good night's sleep is wonderful.
And to the person who made a negative comment, I didn't read it nor do I know you but honey until you are in someone else's shoes please don't judge them. You can say what you would do but even then it doesn't equal to doing it on a daily basis. She never said she didn't want her baby or love her baby, she just wants what every mother wants.... a little more sleep so that the awake times she can stop and smell the roses instead of falling face firsst into them!!

Liz; 5/18/2009 5:10 AM
Lianna Knight said...: I am SO sorry that you have received an ugly comment. I MUST say that you do EVERYTHING possible to help us mommy-wanna-be's and can't believe anyone would mistake your loving and generous nature.

Please know that I LOVE hearing about Harper, seeing all her cute little outfits and bows, as well as all the trials and successes you are experiencing with her...you are getting ME prepared for the day when I become a mommy :); 5/18/2009 5:41 AM
Snoodle Family said...: Yeah for sleeping through the night! :) So sorry that someone left an ugly answer to your post. I understand being a mommy and having the little girl sleep through the night! :) I enjoy reading your blog, and remember...it is your blog! :)
jenn; 5/18/2009 6:12 AM
Katie Kordsmeier said...: Yay for sleeping through the night!! And yay for clear skin! She's such a doll! Glad to hear y'all are expecting nice weather! We're headed to NW Arkansas Memorial Day Weekend for a family reunion and were wondering what the weather would be like! They're predicting rain for us..yuck!; 5/18/2009 6:19 AM
Melissa said...: Kelly,

I loved seeing Harper laugh!!! I just adore her (and you!!). It was neat to hear both of your voices. Let me just say to anyone who would dare to say anything ugly to you, they can email me and I would be more than happy to set them straight!! HA!! I know first hand what it is like to wait and wait for something you want so badly. You are an amazing Mom and I am sure that you get just plain worn out sometimes. You can be tired and happy at the same time. :-)

I hope you have a wonderful week full of Harper sleeping through the night!!

Love ,
Melissa; 5/18/2009 6:46 AM
Christina said...: Wow! sleeping through the night is HUGE!! I am green with envy, My child just started sleeping all night and she is 2!! I was starting to think that she would never sleep all night. agh. Yeah for you and Harper!! praying she will continue to let Mommy get more sleep at night.; 5/18/2009 6:54 AM
LKB said...: Kelly, I am always amazed at how SOME people choose to express their anger, frustration, sadness, disappointment. The thing I love about your blog is that you are honest and real. It matters not that you have the same challenges as everyone else, what matters is the fact that you are sincerely trying to teach and minister through your feelings and challenges. My daddy told me once that if you stick your head up above the crowd there will always be someone there to take it off for you. I think you experience that when you have a negative commentor. No one in their proper mind can fault you on how you have praised God throughout your whole experience. I know for a fact that your story has reaffirmed the faith of many people. Those ugly comments that show up are proof positive that your message reaches many. And, praise be to God, they also give you someone else to pray for. Negative and unhappy people need all the prayers they can get. Keep on keeping it real - at this point you would lose your credibility if you posted only "peaches and cream" stories. God bless you and your family. Harper is such a cutie and a living embodiment of the power of prayer and the miraculous work of God.; 5/18/2009 7:06 AM
B.D.Riehl said...: Hoorah!!! That first morning of waking up on your own (or from pain because of the watermelons!) and realizing that your baby never woke up is so scary! Then when you realize that they are fine and still sleeping...oh my the hallelujah chorus!!!
And good for you for standing up for your blog. I can't imagine people being rude...I guess I can, but I'm sorry that's happened to you. Just because you have been blessed does not mean you can't be real. You have not chosen for some moms to be without babies; that's in God's hands only. You are extremely kind and sensitive to those that are still waiting, but you don't need to make apologies that your wait is over!
Sorry! I am so mad that you even had to address that issue! You enjoy your baby and your sleep!!!!
I have a 16 month old and am 25 weeks pregnant and, although I know they will be precious, I am not looking forward to those every hour feedings again!!
Happy sleeping! And Harper is looking more beautiful every day!; 5/18/2009 7:15 AM
Betsy said...: I say take your sleep and do a little happy dance. Who in their right mind would not be excited about a full nights sleep after four months of not having one? Uhhh..NOBODY! I am so happy for you and hope it continues...a rested mommy is a happy mommy!; 5/18/2009 7:18 AM
Brandy said...: We've been blessed w/ a baby girl that's been sleeping thru the night since day 1! =), but things haven't been so lucky w/ the nursing deal. after almost 2 months of nothing but pumping, i'm beginning to see signs of healing and improvements. the nice ladies at the lactation office have declared my case to be the worst that they've seen and are amazed how i've continued to go as long as i have. it's been hard and frustrating, but it's worth the pain and discomfort. i hope all continues to go well w/ you and your sweet baby girl. i've been an avid reader for over a year now and look forward to your every post. =)

take care!
brandy
www.brandykeating.blogspot.com; 5/18/2009 7:19 AM
Chelsa said...: congrats on harper sleeping through the night! even ONE night of good rest will do wonders for you! it is such a fun milestone :)

you def. have to get an exosaucer... that was brycen's favorite thing!

glad you had a good weekend :); 5/18/2009 7:21 AM
Lauren said...: Love the video! My 5 month old was sitting next to me when I played it and he was in awe! His eyes got huge and he was wondering where that voice (yours) was coming from! It was hysterical! Thanks for sharing!; 5/18/2009 7:21 AM
Amy @ Keep'n The SunnySide said...: What a cutie pie, and such a good girl to sleep through the night so mommy can rest. Kelly, I completely agree, you do not need to explain anything you do to any of us. I think people that post rude comments are in fact just that rude. Please keep doing what your doing, I love your updates.; 5/18/2009 7:26 AM
Jo said...: Hi Kelly... I have been a lurker since Harper was born and have been following and praying for y'all all this time :)

After watching this video I just HAD to comment. Not that Harper's little giggle isn't the cutest thing... but I have to say that what I love best about the video is the "I love you" at the end.

I taught preschool for 10 years and you would not believe how many parents do not tell their children that they love them. It is so nice to hear those words spoken, especially to such a young chld :)

Many people don't realize they even need to TALK to their babies....sad but true.

Keep up the good work. That punkin of yours sure is a DOLL!!; 5/18/2009 7:34 AM
mn said...: From one new mom to another, I'm so happy for the milestone of Harper sleeping through the night! We are so blessed to be mothers, and we are also human. We should be able to share in all our frustrations and triumphs-it's part of motherhood. And more than three hours of consecutive sleep is a triumph! I hope it continues. Harper seems gets more adorable all the time!; 5/18/2009 7:42 AM
andrea said...: woohoo!!!!!!!!!!

go harper go!!!!!!!!!!

good for all of you to get a whole night of sleep:

how did the husbie react to you waking him up to tell him:):)

you are so darn cute and so is harper girl:); 5/18/2009 7:44 AM
CAMoore said...: Great news!!!! She and Cyler must have been on the same sleep schedule that night! He too, slept through the night (and momma was in pain!! ha!)

Love the video of her laughing! I just love it!!!! What a sweet little girl!; 5/18/2009 7:52 AM
Boni Williamson said...: OMG! I totally agree with the sleep thing. It's good for Mommy and baby to have plenty of sleep. You should be HAPPY and EXCITED and never feel guilty!

She's adorable!; 5/18/2009 8:00 AM
Anonymous said...: I'm glad you finally found something that worked for her skin...I know how hard the trial and error period is.

WTG Harper on sleeping through the night...I know your mommy appreciated it.; 5/18/2009 8:09 AM
The Allens said...: I'm dying to know - did she sleep through the night again? Aaron slept through the night once two weeks ago and I thought we were home free, but it hasn't happened again?!?; 5/18/2009 8:10 AM
Amanda said...: You just enjoy your well-rested self!!! :) Yes, sometimes it doesn't happen very often, but praise God when it does! Just an FYI, anytime my kids have done that out of the blue, it was usually followed by a growth spurt, lots of nursing. I pray she keeps doing it. Well-rested mommies are an even greater blessing to their babies! Lucy sleeps a long time, but she starts so early in the evening that I still get up at 3-4 for a feeding. Someday...; 5/18/2009 8:27 AM
Robyn said...: yes Kelly, it is your blog..say whatever you feel. I don't think it is right for you to not experience motherhood because you are so worried about those who haven't been as blessed. It is like a rite of passage all the little trials of being a mommy, so live them, enjoy them, blog about them and don't feel guilty!

You are a great mommy-; 5/18/2009 8:32 AM
Julie said...: Harper is so cute - I love the video of her laughing! So darn cute! And HOORAY for sleep! Isn't is amazing what sleep can do?? Here's praying it keeps up!!! I'm rejoicing with you!!!; 5/18/2009 8:39 AM
Beth said...: Congratulations on a full night's sleep!! I woke up in a panic the first night my baby slept in her own bed in her own room all night too!! I think you are right on about ugly commenters!!! Being a mom is not always a walk in the park and although I wouldn't trade my almost 3 yr old, sometimes it is tough!! Love your blog!! God Bless!!

Beth; 5/18/2009 8:43 AM
Jennifer said...: It is exciting that she slept through the night. This is your life and it is okay to be excited about things like that! Thanks so much for always being real in what you write, that's what keeps all of us reading.; 5/18/2009 8:49 AM
Anonymous said...: First off....YAY!!!! What a feeling of sleeping through the night. I remember the exact feeling of waking up in panic because my son didn't wake up through that first night! It will definitely be a blessing if she continues to sleep through the night....if nothing else but for your sanity =) I also wanted to tell you what a joy it was to see your video of Harper laughing! I think that's one of the best sound in the world. I needed it today too because here at work I miss the time I used to be able to stay at home. So I thank you for that wonderful sound =); 5/18/2009 8:51 AM
Amber said...: I did the same thing the first time my son slept through the night (freaked out & had the watermelons!) Congrats!! That's truely a milestone!!; 5/18/2009 8:53 AM
B and D said...: Yea for Harper sleeping through the night! I hope you see a trend in that department. And you keep writing whatever you want to write- it is your blog and if people don't agree then they can stop reading!

As a side note (and totally not trying to give advice!), a friend of mine suggested a book to me this weekend called The Baby Whisperer. She knows I like schedules since I get up early to run. Anyway, she said it has been a great resource for her and their 10 week old (who is sleeping through the night now) and thought I might be interested in reading it when our little one arrives. I think it's a parent driven schedule book vs. baby driven, so depending on your opinion there make your decision to read accordingly :); 5/18/2009 8:55 AM
Stephanie said...: I just LOVE the picture of little Harper checking herself out in the mirror. My daughter LOVES the mirror too - just giggles at herself every time. One time I caught her staring into the window of our bedroom door (which are french doors) and babbling to herself. So cute!

And what a JOY to sleep through the night. It truly is a blessing after months of not sleeping through the night. I remember waking up the first few nights she did that because I was SO uncomfortable too and was shocked she hadn't woken me up yet. The first time I woke up and was wide awake. My husband just laughed at me cuz I got up and started cleaning up the house ;) Blessings to you and your little Harper - I just LOVE reading about your adventures as a new mommy, cuz I'm there too!; 5/18/2009 9:00 AM
Nichole Fisher said...: That little baby laugh totally made my morning!; 5/18/2009 9:02 AM
Paige said...: It is very exciting when they sleep through the night for the first time. I can't believe someone would make an ugly comment about it. I was very lucky that my babies started sleeping through the night around 2 1/2-3 months, and I was only getting up every 2 hours for about the first 2 weeks. That was exhausting to me so, I cannot imagine having to get up every 2 hours for 4 months. Anyways, you have every right to be excited and it makes you a much better mom during the day when you're getting a good night's sleep!

I love the video. She's precious and I just love babies laughing! So sweet!; 5/18/2009 9:13 AM
Jenni said...: Congrats on sleeping all night! I remember the sheer joy of experiencing that milestone (and also the sheer panic at first too :) and YES the watermelon feeling! AH!; 5/18/2009 9:22 AM
Amy said...: Ahh... I remember that night well... The night Aiden first slept through the night. I remember waking up in a panic much as you did. That was it... From that point on he slept through the night. I don't know what changed, it just did! CONGRATS!

She is too dang cute!

Amy; 5/18/2009 9:23 AM
Amanda said...: I'm so happy for you about Harper sleeping through the night! I can't even imagine how good that felt after 4 months of waking every hour or two.; 5/18/2009 9:24 AM
Val, Brax and Harper said...: just wondering what ended up clearing her skin?? i'm so glad you found what works for her.

as for the comment--you don't have to explain yourself--anyone with a child TOTALLY understands your feelings. i assume the person that left the ugly comment hasn't had a baby yet and is feeling bitter. sad for them-yes, but you shouldn't have to apologize!; 5/18/2009 9:30 AM
Alphabet Soup Momma said...: YEAH for sleeping through the nigh!! I have a dear friend who has an 18 month old and Jack will still not sleep through that night. God is so good, he just knows when you need a break :); 5/18/2009 9:34 AM
Michele said...: Oh my gosh Kelly, Harper is just so adorable! Congrats on the sleeping...I was the same way...just a plain panic when I woke up and she hadn't!!!

Have a wonderful week with the great weather!

Hugz,
Michele; 5/18/2009 9:39 AM
Anonymous said...: That is crappy that someone had an ugly comment. If you want to celebrate that your daughter slept through the night, then you go right ahead and jump up and down and scream hysterically if you want! Any mom who can't admit to being happy when their baby sleeps through the night is in serious denial!; 5/18/2009 9:48 AM
Heather said...: I love the video!! So cute!!! YAY for a full night of sleep , that is awesome and I know it feels so refreshing!!; 5/18/2009 9:50 AM
Sarah said...: Firstly, Harper is adorable. There is no better sound on earth than a baby laughing--thanks for making my day with it! :)

Next, I can't stand people that make nasty comments on blogs--it they don't agree with what you do and write, they shouldn't read it! HELLO!!! ARGH. You are a great Mom and you haven't complained at all about your sleepless nights. CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR FIRST great night's sleep in 4 months!!!

Happy 4 months, precious baby girl!!! :); 5/18/2009 10:01 AM
It's a wonderful life said...: Congrats on the full nights sleep and I can relate totally!! Now that my daughter is "7" I miss those late night feedings!! I am ready for another little one :). Harper is so precious and you are a very blessed family!!; 5/18/2009 10:12 AM
Krista said...: Kelly! She is just TOO cute for words! And I love the videos! Ah. The girls & I love watching Harper grow up...and I love hearing your Southern accent! =) So fun! =)
Thanks for sharing your little princess with us! I'm so glad she slept through the night! YAY for sleep! =); 5/18/2009 10:47 AM
Jenny said...: Baby laughter is sweeter than any music. Than you for sharing!; 5/18/2009 10:50 AM
Anonymous said...: I think it's wonderful that Miss Harper slept through the night! You deserve to be happy. My daughter turns 1 a week from today and still has yet to sleep through the night. It is a great reason to be excited! I'm sorry that people have to be nasty, it just isn't right. So take it from me and the rest of your one billion admirers, you are a great mom and don't let one person get you down!!; 5/18/2009 10:55 AM
Kari said...: Oh I panicked like that the first time both my girls slept through the night! And, I hope that this is the last time you apologize on YOUR blog for something you say!!! :) And, if anyone has a problem with what you say on YOUR blog, they can just stop reading if they like. But, you have every right to say everything you feel on your own blog. This is a free country, right!? haha Anywho. I LOVE those pictures of Harper! and the video is precious!; 5/18/2009 11:05 AM
Sheila said...: I really enjoy your blog Kelly. I have followed it ever since Harper was first born. I enjoy blogging and facebook but am really disappointed in people that make nasty comments on either. Blogging and facebook is such a wonderful way to spread the love of Jesus and keep in tough with other peoples lives and it is sad that some have to ruin it at times. My son Tony died when he was 20, 14 years ago and I still miss him. But I also still remember the first time he slept the night through! So exciting but scary until I held a mirror under his nose to make sure he was still breathing. Keep trusting God and doing what you are doing, you have an amazing testimony!; 5/18/2009 11:15 AM
Unknown said...: Yay, congrats Harper! I'm so jealous!; 5/18/2009 11:17 AM
Anonymous said...: I totally agree with your stance on getting a full nights sleep! I can't believe that people would leave you rude comments about that! Come on! I love my 2 boys.. but when they started to sleep the whole night- I was THRILLED!! That doesnt make me love my children less!
I love the video... I don't think there is a better sound in the world than that of a baby laughing!
You have such a cute southern accent! I am from Savannah, GA (home of Paula Deen)... I wonder if I have an accent...lol
By the way- we are trying to get pregnant again (although my youngest only just turned 10 months old last week!) We hope for a girl this time! I wonder if I could talk my husband into naming our baby Harper (if it is a girl) so we can buy all of your totally cute leftover clothes from ya!! She has to have the best wardrobe I have ever seen!; 5/18/2009 11:27 AM
Verna said...: Looking at the photos from 1 month to now.... She has grown so much already. Is very adorable.

Love the photos, the one with the mirror is great.

Have a great day.; 5/18/2009 11:31 AM
Natalie said...: Love the post...and I for one say Poo on the people who leave nasty comments! It is only natural for a mother to be happy & excited that her child has slept through the night for the first time! Oh & PS, not sure why I didn't think so before (since you are from Arkansas & all) but I was surprised to hear your accent on the video! HA! Love it too though!; 5/18/2009 11:37 AM
KIMBERLY said...: yay for a good night of sleep! this is YOUR blog and you should NOT have to justify being tickled for a full nights sleep! we are delighted for you! thanks for sharing your little milestones with the world! she is a doll!; 5/18/2009 11:42 AM
Laura said...: Ahhhh - a full night of sleep! I know how precious that is...my second son has done that exactly three times in his life so far....and he is two weeks away from turning 1 year old. LOL! I guess I am used to the sleep deprivation. Just when he does that, he then follows it up with two or three nights of very broken sleep - thank goodness for nursing to settle him back down! I hear ya on your aching melons though - I'll bet you couldn't run to the pump fast enough!;); 5/18/2009 11:48 AM
The Beaverette said...: I have been following you for a couple of months and if I am reading this blog correctly, your sweet personality comes shining through. The fact someone felt the need to comment negatively on what is equivelant to an online diary is sad. They must be in a lot of pain to lash out so. We can all tell you appreciate everything about motherhood, a lot of things most moms overlook. You are doing a great job and Harper will be an amazing woman because of her parents. May God bless you in special ways this week and know following him you are letting your light shine!; 5/18/2009 11:50 AM
Kate said...: I love reading your blog. You are such an inspiration. Don't ever feel you have to justify your comments to ANYONE! We all know the trials and tribulations that come along with infertility and we all know how unbelievably thankful you are to have Harper home and healthy. You are not a martyr! It's ok to feel frustrated or tired or worn out from getting up every two hours. I don't think anyone WANTS to do that. We know you are happy to do it though. Just delete those nasty comments because they aren't worth your time! You rock!; 5/18/2009 11:51 AM
JAMIE said...: Kill them with kindness Kelly. They don't mean it. They're just in a bad place. We'll just say our prayers for them! :); 5/18/2009 12:11 PM
Julia said...: I honestly just don't understand a person that would comment anything negative like that. You go girl!!!; 5/18/2009 12:12 PM
The Elletts said...: Can I ask what exactly is working for her skin?? I am always interested in what works for others.

And please do not let anyone make you feel bad!!! Every milestone is a blessing and every milestone will make you miss the ones before... I miss the "baby" in my super busy 2-year-old! (Who doesn't always sleep through the night)

Much love,
Jennifer; 5/18/2009 12:14 PM
momeeof3 said...: She is just the cutest thing!!! I love the little laugh.
I think that for you to have to defend yourself on YOUR blog is crap! This is YOUR blog and you should be able to say what you want. Hopefully those hateful people will find better things to do with their time (maybe open up the BIBLE and read) then to send nasty comments!
Enjoy your Monday!; 5/18/2009 12:22 PM
Emily said...: Are you kidding me???? How rude people can be. This is your blog and if they don't want to be happy with you then they can just leave!! I am mad for you. You have a beautiful baby girl you just keep posting away.; 5/18/2009 12:25 PM
Anonymous said...: that picture of harper looking in the mirror is the cutest thing i've seen...maybe ever! seriously!; 5/18/2009 12:51 PM
laura said...: Kelly, never in a million years have you ever appeared to be ungrateful or inconsiderate of those who do not yet have children...your heart is so obvious, and you have EVERY right to rejoice in a full night's sleep! We know you treasure every minute...I praise God for quality rest. I will pray that it continues!!; 5/18/2009 12:56 PM
dear oprah said...: Kelly,

It always a joy to see Harper's smiling face :D Personally, I don't think she ever has a bad day, she's always so happy =D

Congrats on the all nighter! Go Harper! Woo Hoo! hope it sticks for at least a couple of weeks!

And I know this is completely out of context. But, have you seen MAC Cosmetics new line? It's all animal prints - I thought of you when I got the notification! Go check it out, I have a feeling you're gonna LOVE it! LOL!

Analiza; 5/18/2009 1:20 PM
Kelli said...: I'm with you, sister. There is something beautiful and sweet about those middle of the night snuggles and feedings, but there ain't nothin' wrong with rejoicing in a full night's sleep either. I mean, God did DESIGN our bodies to require uninterrupted sleep daily, right? Good grief.

You're a great mom and your daughter is a doll. Enjoy every moment and rejoice in the milestones all you want. Those are the joys of motherhood.; 5/18/2009 1:20 PM
Sonya said...: Yes you have every right to be excited that she slept all night long. My DD is almost 16 months old and I STILL get excited when she sleeps all night. (it doesn't happen a hole bunch but she is getting better); 5/18/2009 1:26 PM
Prissy Southern Prep said...: Who in the world would leave you an ugly comment? Goodness! I can't imagine why anyone would do that. Your blog is such a blessing to me, and I just nearly teared up when I watched the video of Harper. I can hear in your voice how happy that enthralled you are with being a Mom. God bless you!!; 5/18/2009 1:36 PM
Andrea said...: Kelly-

That is SOOO great that Harper slept through the night. Infertility I think causes us to have mixed feelings over those milestones because we remember what it was like to long for that child. I myself have felt guilty when my 6 week old is screaming in my ear in the evenings with colic while my 2 year old is hanging on me crying, and I think, "MAN! I need a break!" then I think, this is what I prayed for, took medication for, cried to God every night for 3 years for....mixed feelings, but we are entitled to them, after all, we are still human. :-)

I will pray that Harper will give you many more nights of restful sleep.

Love- Andrea from Houston; 5/18/2009 1:43 PM
Fran said...: Could she be any cuter?? I love how her eyes get bigger right before you tickle her!!! So so precious.

Enjoy the beautiful weather this week!! And, hoping you get lots of sleep this week too. ;)

Hugs,
Fran; 5/18/2009 1:47 PM
Judy said...: Harper is getting so big. I first started to read when Harper was in the Hospital. Our stories were very similar! It is amazing to see where our babies were when they were in the NICU and to see where they are now isn't it? I am glad you got a good night's sleep. We are still working on that.; 5/18/2009 1:54 PM
Melissa said...: girl i know you have a heart for those who LONG to be mom's but you need to celebrate being one yourself! you keep right on bragging about your little blessing and we'll keep desiring to read about her!; 5/18/2009 1:58 PM
Amy said...: Praise God she slept all night. I had two babies within 18 months and they didn't sleep all night FOREVER. I know how it feels. And you don't need to explain. You are a wonderful mom and we all know how much you adore your darling daughter.
God Bless you Kelly!; 5/18/2009 1:58 PM
krislyn. said...: Harper's giggle is contagious!! Praise the Lord for her sleeping through the night - even though I know you just love the momma-harper time at 3 in the morning! Hope this wasn't a one time deal. =); 5/18/2009 2:01 PM
Sara Campbell said...: Go Harper! Kelly, this is your blog, you are the director and editor in chief. Don't waste your typing fingers on people. Just hit delete. You are a good mama. I am just enjoying living 10 years ago thru you. How I remember that first night she slept. I kept checking to see if she was breathing. Now on number 5, I realize at 24 lbs he is plenty heafty, I sometimes shut my door and snag a few more minutes of sleep even after he is awake. shhh, dont' tell.; 5/18/2009 2:07 PM
Just the 5 of us said...: I am a huge fan of your blog!!! I had Story (6 months old) on my lap while watching your video of Harper and she was just staring at Harper and was laughing along with Harper... I thought it was so sweet!!!; 5/18/2009 2:16 PM
The Milams said...: Great news for you. It's amazing how much a whole night of sleep can do for a tired mama!! I remember that first night of sleeping through and waking up to a total panic!

I am sorry that you feel like you have to explain yourself so regularly. Having this big of an audience is definitely a mixed blessing...BUT know that the majority of us have had the exact feelings and understand where you are coming from!; 5/18/2009 2:19 PM
Angel said...: Kudos to you for saying what's on your mind. This IS your blog and as much as I want a baby, I know I will be so glad when I can get to sleep thru the night!; 5/18/2009 2:21 PM
Angel said...: Kudos to you for saying what's on your mind. This IS your blog and as much as I want a baby, I know I will be so glad when I can get to sleep thru the night!; 5/18/2009 2:21 PM
Jennifer Owens said...: That picture of Harper looking at herself in the mirror is so cute!!! She is so beautiful - just like her momma! (o:; 5/18/2009 2:23 PM
Anonymous said...: You and little Harper are an absolute blessing to me!; 5/18/2009 2:31 PM
Dawn said...: That was funny that you woke your hubby UP to tell him she slept through the night. That cracked me up. =)
Congrats and enjoy it when it happens.; 5/18/2009 2:39 PM
Erica said...: I could not find your email to ask you, but what was the magic combo of things for Harper's eczema?? My 8 month old is struggling still..so thought it may help..I was excited to see that post! Also, I know what you mean about panicking when you wake up because you are so used to them being awake more often..I watched my little ones for hours on the video monitor!! love your blog!!
Erica
ericalisti@hotmail.com; 5/18/2009 2:55 PM
Rachel said...: I am SO happy for you!! That is AWESOME that Harper slept through the night- it really does make everythin easier, and I know that I am such a better mom when I have had some sleep. I really admire you for getting up every two hours for the past four months... all I can say is WOW! :); 5/18/2009 3:07 PM
Anonymous said...: I understand about the sleep. My oldest had colic for the first 4 months and cried almost non stop, neighbors even called the police once.; 5/18/2009 3:35 PM
DreamTNM said...: Like some others here, I do not know you, but do now from blog world heehee I love reading your blog and you have every right to write whatever you want! GOOD that you mentioned that outloud! If people do not agree they do not have to read it! The rest of us, love your blog!

Tania; 5/18/2009 4:07 PM
Claire said...: Yay for sleeping through! Go Harper!

And go you for sticking up for yourself, sweetie. I have no idea why someone *would* make an ugly comment (how rude and horrid of them!), but good on you for saying what you needed to say!

Love the pics too, especially the mirror one!

Cxx; 5/18/2009 4:33 PM
Marlo said...: Love the video! She's a doll!; 5/18/2009 7:14 PM
West Family said...: Ok, I tried to leave a comment before but don't think it did...
first off, Harper is adorable! Love the laugh!!! I can't wait to hear my Emma Rose laugh!
Second, you have EVERY right to celebrate sleeping through the night! My sister prayed for a child as well and was blessed with her twins and she does not miss one minute of the sleepless nights! When you and her are both well rested it makes for the moments of feeding the next day even more precious because you are both happy! My daughter was born 6 weeks early and she is 7 weeks now. She slept one night for 9.5 hours and that was the most wonderful gift!! It has not happened since but she is still tiny! Enjoy your sleep for all of us that are still waking up with our little ones!; 5/18/2009 8:51 PM
Lauren said...: My heart breaks to think of why you have to justify writing so honestly about being a mother. I'm not one yet, but absolutely love how you write about the ups and downs and silliness of being a mother. Keep it up and don't let those meanies get you down!; 5/19/2009 2:25 AM
Molly W. said...: Congratulations! That is a HUGE deal! I'm just sorry people are so lame and say rude things that make you feel like you need to justify yourself. I know its easy to say but -just delete and ignore -its your blog, you get to call the shots. :); 5/19/2009 6:04 AM
Elizabeth said...: Yay for sleeping through the night!! She is too cute. Thanks for sharing the video - that made my morning :); 5/19/2009 9:24 AM
Anonymous said...: I look forward to each and every post. Glad your angel bug is doing soooooo well! YAY HARPER GIRLIE!!!!!!!

Shannon; 5/19/2009 12:43 PM
Sara Lynn said...: I loved the video Harper is too adorable. I am a new reader to your blog and have definitely loved reading your story.; 5/19/2009 2:16 PM
momof3girls said...: you go girl! You are sounding like a mother now! I agree as much as I love all my daughters, and no matter how special our little middle of the night special meetings were (after all it was just the two of us) momma found her personality again once I started sleeping in atleast 4 hour chunks of time!!! I' glad that Harper's skin has cleared up!; 5/19/2009 4:19 PM
C said...: Yay for sleep! I couldn't agree with you more...we tried for 2 years before getting pregnant with Brooklyn, and I LOVE every single second with her and still can't believe she's here and that I have my dream job/life...but sleep is necessary and wonderful, as is a few occasional moments of Mommy time, and that's nothing to feel guilty about:) It doesn't mean we're not grateful to have our babies, it just means we're human!:); 5/22/2009 8:56 AM

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